| HAHA you are funny my friend. I kind of sounded like you after HS. Well I can't say I live like a rockstar now but I have my good days lol
I believe your not going to ever get a straight answer or a magic pill to fix this.
Now that I've stated these two things I digress, I'm not going to give you some list or tell you "the big secret" because there isn't one.
Basically the answer is a simple one:
Like yourself. Then others will aswell.
Think long and hard about yourself can you stand to be by yourself? if the answer is no, it ok, most people can't. Now, why? Do you get bored easily, Do you know what you value? Do you bring the party or energy to a room? Basically are you a cool guy?
And of course the answer is yes because everyone is if they allow themselves to be.
This is just a guess, but I'd say u know what cool looks like; you seen bond, jay-z, style, but you keep telling yourself you can't or asking will people recieve you with open arms? The truth is you gotta let go of what people think of you and hold on to what you think of yourself.
Think of yourself as great and you will act like it. Eventually this greatness will turn into positivity. Then positivity turns into confidence, and it's only good thing after that. If you need something to think your great, do some good deed, ask for number(fail or pass at least you asked), stop a bullying, or just count what you already done.
Now if you own all your behavior and like it and are proud of it, you will walk tall and come to love who you are as if you are some sorta superhero or just an overall cool ass kid.
Now a cool guy isn't a guy who always has the right thing to say or even acts always on time. It only seems that way because he happy. He'll say the wrong thing and somehow it will work and if he says the wrong thing and it doesn't, well we all still think he's the man because we can only agree with what he think of himself, he is the only man that has walked his shoes. And if he think without a doubt he the man we will eventually think it cuz he will keep reinforcing it.
Now I;m not talk about acting like the man, I'm talking knowing your the man by counting the reason and being proud of what you do. that way you can always fall back on the proof.
If you started learning game with tactics forget them, get this down, then sprinkle them on after.
Use the little tricks and routines of the game (cube, 5q's game, number guessing, etc) leave the negs and all the concepts out. Those are geared for older over confident woman. ie negging, LMR, bitch sheilds, etc. u might need em but i doubt it with teenage girls.
I know your gonna need some cohonas, as thier always in high school or just with being a cool guy in general. So remember this YOU ONLY DO HIGHSChOOL ONCE SO jump first think later. good are bad at least you did it
If things don't work, do them different and don't get caught up in beating yourself up, just keep moving, trust me there's a light at the end of this tunnel.
Stay Red.
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