To me to build an attractive lifestyle you need to have an attractive personality since im just starting i don't really have that any suggestions?
I know the C&F thing but haven't really mastered it i want to be that "life of the pary" type of guy i just don't know how to go about this can someone give me like some in detail description and examples and if not a little help goes long way.

If you want to be the "life of the party" you need to make yourself the "life of the party"......you need to increase your social network.....and be the in things...also you need to be a leader of that social networks....call and make the shoots for the group.....I don't know how old you are and stuff.....cause there are different techniques.....if your 18+.....go to clubs and always get a VIP table.....make friends with the promoters/DJs/buy that bottle (don't get wasted) give some of the in people a drink and network....work on your inner circle.....but it depends on alot of things...

First you need to take control of your MIND...but it's not that simple. Actually it is...but you have to do CRAZY things.

Do things that the old YOU would never do. Go out to a busy shopping mall dressed in a skirt and bra. If you're really bold, strap a dildo to your forehead. Hypnotica did it, and he is the inner game guru. I am planning on doing it as soon as I get a car because I'm going to need a quick getaway..lol.

Then you need to go to a nudist colony and be totally NUDE. Also, partake in a game of basketball...NUDE. Befriend the locals there, and most importantly, HAVE FUN.

Sing girly songs like Backstreet Boys or Britney Spears at the top of your lungs on a busy street. You will learn to not give a FUCK what people think. And then...when you are at that point..you are READY. NOOOO QUESTION. -cshadyp

It's easier than you think. First you have to choose what style you're going for. Do you want to be classy, or spontaneous? Mysterious, or, as you put it, the life of the party? Once you figured that out then you have to envision exactly how you would be. Kind of daydream a bit about it. Then write down all the things you think you need to be able to pull that vision off, from the most important things to the least. Write it down on a to-do list for yourself. Then, execute by working on those traits, or getting those outfits, working out at the gym and reading NLP (if thats your thing). Do inner game routines on yourself. And find a friend that would be interested in doing much the same. I find having support makes a huge difference in motivation to getting these things done.

What kind of hobbies do you have? What kind of hobbies would you like to have?

And apart of having an attractive lifestyle is having a stable and successful lifestyle. Alot of people tend to not focus on that part as much, but it's very important that you do.

So basically you need to align everything, or at least be in progress with it. Just my 2 cents.

people always give you advice to do this and do that, and this is who you need to meet and this is where you need to be, but no body tells you HOW! No shit in order to be the life of the party you need to be popular and the center of attention and the leader of the group...but HOW do you get to that point? And that's what I think your wanting to find out!!

I think that this really all depends. There is not "how to" formula to do anything. Thats the thing with PUA's, what works for one person, doesn't work for the other. I think the formula to accomplishing anything you want, from becoming succesful in life, with friends, women, or money, all really depends on you!

you have to be completely in control of yourself, and you have to be comfortable with who you are. You can be the captain of a damn chess team for all that matters, but as long as your comfortable with it and take pride in it, that's all that really matters.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that, you don't have to wear a dildo out in a mall in order to get this stuff down, it's all within. You need to appreciate life, prioritize whats important and what s not, and make sure you stand for something and have morals. Then, you will find yourself, thus finding your inner core and most importantly, finding yourself.

When this is done, you will feel and you will be unstoppable, trust me! If you want to get a better understanding of how you could really control yourself and outcomes, I highly recommend reading Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill.

Best of Luck,

Foxx