I just finished watching Kezia's video on getting a girlfriend where she is saying one tip is to not be too available because she appreciates the time with you all the more. I think for many years I have been I. The shoes women want to be in because I have been frustrated calling, emailing and texting girls and getting little or no replies. Now I just need to learn to be that way to turn it in my favor.

Yes women want a man who has there own life. Half the fun for women is convincing a man he should change for her. And make her the center of everything. But when you don;t you keep them going. You should come off as important, busy, interesting...but also give off the idea you are Obtainable!

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The general idea is right, but I think you're looking at it from the wrong view point. You shouldn't want a busy lifestyle to make girls jealous, or to show them that you're busy. You shouldn't care whether a girl wants to change you or not. Just have a busy lifestyle because it's better than sitting at home masturbating or watching Jersey Shore. It's a nice added bonus that a girl would rather be with someone who is out doing interesting things, but bottom line is that you yourself would probably prefer to be living your life if you're out doing more interesting exciting things.

She's partly right but don't just pretend to be busy. You should want to build an attractive lifestyle for yourself, with or without girls.

Important note: Do not ask a fish how to catch another fish, ask the fisherman! i.e. Don't learn pickup from a chick, it's a schoolboy error. Kezia Noble steals her material from other PUAs anyway, that's why some of it is good.

I have to agree with Hunter Foxe here, its not just about pretending to live the attractive lifestyle, its about actually building it and living it. Pretending will only work to a certain point. What happens when she calls you to hang out and the only thing you can think of is hanging around watching TV? You'll hear a lot that in the PU community, step one is focusing on yourself, not the target. Work on building your lifestyle first, then getting the women.

Agree 120% with this..

Don't just act... Do it.

Do you think think men want the same? Because when i look at my current situation i think so... This girl i like is exactly like this. She is always busy, out with friends has many things to do. When you ask her for a date she never says yes or no she always says " I have to look if i have time". Actually i really hate this behavior but for some wired reason i cant even explain it makes her very very interesting and makes me want to see her more often. I hate to admit that but im just being honest. Usually when someone tells me " i dont know when i have time for you" im like "ok i cant be that important then... get the hell out" but with her its different... Just asking... maybe its just me...