Best parties I ever had every month

I just like to help out the community by giving back to everyone. I notice on my journey to be a better PUA that I could only really go out Wednesday – Sunday. What about Monday and Tuesday I said to myself. Why does the party train have to stop? I am really having fun and I just want to keep going seven days a week. I came up with a fool proof plan to increase my social value and party scene. I would throw a once month party “Wine and Cheese event.” This was my bread and butter so to speak as being my favorite party to have. I would throw these events on Tuesday or Wednesday generally. I would throw more events during week, because I would tell them I don’t want to interfere with your busy party schedule on the weekend.

This is how I would throw my parties. I would make a Facebook event. You start by telling your inner circle of friends that you want to have a once month “Wine and Cheese event” party at your house. I would make my parties super interactive.

This system works for Wine and Cheese, Martini, and Champagne events. Disclaimer: I would stay away from anything that has to do with beer in it. The reason is beer is cheap and you get to many guys that will come to my house. You want to stay away from any kind of events that guys are more interested in doing. Example: UFC fights unless it the Super Bowl type of event. You want to attract a classier type of women, so I would have Wine and Cheese, Martini, and Champagne events.

Sample event that I posted on Facebook

Wine and Cheese Tasting hosted by Albert

Starting at 7:00 PM this Wednesday’s selection shall include 3 distinguished flavors from Al’s favorite vineyards accompanied by a variety of cheeses.

Entertainment included but not limited to:
Bartender on Site
Professional photographer
Appetizers and Hors d’ oeuvres shrimp cocktail, chips, dip and more
Bear Ninja Hunter
Karaoke
Ring Toss
Jell-O Shots
Come and meet new friends
New ideas and perspectives
Music Videos
Games
10ft” HD Movie Screen playing favorite music videos

Requirements:
Smiling
Laughing
NO DRAMA
Great attitude
Music Videos
Casual dress attire
Please feel to bring your favorite dishes or beverages

I am going to break down the type of system I had in place and this is going to be a lot work, but the benefits of doing this are fantastic. Any party you give has to be interactive a lot things must be going on at the same time. This will make people want to come back for the next party. You must have a clean place. You cannot be a dirt bag or it will not work. I like doing these type of events during the week. I tell them I do these events on the weekday is because I don’t want to interfere with your party schedule. I know you are a party animal. I really just want to go out and pick up more girls on the weekends.

When you create the Facebook event you want to make sure you have two girls hosting with you aka wing girls. I think this is just a safety feature for women. The party is not about you, but all your friends and new ones you be getting. You create these events two weeks in advance.

One thing I was lucky with I had a friend who worked at Apple and he was very creative in creating promotion videos for me. These videos were simple, but awesome to watch. These videos help create a huge red carpet event to promote the event I was having.

The 3 distinguish wines they came from Wal-Mart, Costco, ABC Fine wine, and so on.
The Bartender is your drinking buddy and he has the most important job he pours the drinks for everyone.

This is a requirement.

The photographer is also your drinking buddy and he has to take all the photos on your camera for everyone. These photos are later posted on Facebook and you are tagging everyone. This will in turn increase social circle of friends and future girls to hit on. I would hear comments sometimes that they would want to be invited to the next one.

***Important *** This is how I did my photography back ground and how it was setup. You want to make this like a red carpet event like movie premiere night or “The Oscars”. People love to get their picture taken especially women. I would make people bring props from crazy glasses, hats, scarfs, clothes, musical instrument, etc. The more outrageous the props that people would bring the better the photos would be. I have a PlayStation 3 and it has the capability of doing slide shows backgrounds. I would use my 10” HD movie screen to use as the background for the photography. I would download images from Google images or any other place on the web. I notice a good place to get photos were the screen savers or windows backgrounds. I would make these images as an interactive background for the photographer. I would have pictures of wine bottles, Mediterranean cities, Eiffel Tower, Bora Bora islands, James Bond cars, Guns, sexy foods, just bad ass photos that are cool to see or just cool places to visit.
I would have my 50’ Plasma TV showing Karaoke music or music videos. My kitchen TV would be showing music videos, movies or photos of past party events.

What you can also use a Media Server from Netgear and it has the capability of showing photos slides and YouTube videos on your TV set.

I would also use my 10” HD Movie Screen to play Music videos from YouTube. I would give the remote to a girl in the room tell her you are the DJ tonight. Just let put her favorite music.

Bear Ninja Hunter is an interactive game you play with your new party crews. You can query YouTube to watch one of the games. It is super fun and everyone has to play. The loser takes a shot.

Ring Toss is just you throwing jar lids on bottles and when you get on you get a shot of Vodka. Everyone has to play it is mandatory. I know some women do not like to take shots. I immediately grab to chicks and point to her and “yell she won’t drink her shot everyone.” This is peer pressure at its finest. I tell them It is ok; these are the South Beach rules you don’t have to take the shot you can give it to any one in room, but you have make out with them. The girl always takes the shot it works perfectly.

Another game some people to love to play is twister.

Sample past events that I had posted on Facebook

Title: Shaken and Not Stirred – James Bond party

It’s time to have a few Martini’s and Olives with your friends.
This year’s Shaken and Not Stirred Martini party will be a Black and White theme social event. Black and White attire of some sort is required to help bring in the happy times this year. We will be having a large assortment of Martinis. Post event dancing at Towncenter.
Entertainment included but not limited to:
Best Bond Girl Contest
Bartender on Site
Professional Photographer
Appetizers

Requirements:
Black and White Attire
Karaoke
Smiling
Laughing
NO DRAMA
Great attitude
Music Videos
Bear-Ninja-Hunter, Ring Toss, and Twister
Come and meet new friends
10ft” HD movie screen playing your favorite music videos.

Please feel free to bring your dishes or beverages

Here is the menu of martini drinks that we will be having. I would pass them around to my friends as they would enter into my house.

This event I had all the guys come in suits and girls dress like Bond girls. Background on the movie screen was James Bond cars, Guns, and Bond Girls. All the photography was done in black and white. The props I used were guns and sexy poses. I swear this was the best party I ever had.

Here are some more ideas I had:

Past parties: On one of my TV sets I had I would put a slide show of past parties of friends having a great time at previous events I had thrown. I usually put this on my Kitchen TV set. Note: Important to keep all the photos clean and appropriate. These photos are not to embarrass anyone, but promote past and future friendships. Delete all the bad photos of people making asses of themselves.

Also you can put photos of paintings, fabulous backgrounds on your other TV sets as a slide show.
Mass texting events: The phone numbers you get from doing your PUA adventures and they don’t work out for whatever reason. Normally, you would probably delete the phone numbers off your phone. Don’t do it anymore. What you want to do is text them your next wine and cheese event. I would say in a generic text. “Hey, having a Wine and Cheese event the on this Tuesday. Please bring the smiles here is the event on Facebook” and text them the Facebook event page.

“Fright Night and Pumpkin Carving Event” I got free stencils from the web on pumpkin carving and we carved pumpkins. I was showing music videos and Horror flicks on all my TV sets. Like SAW, Hellraiser, etc…

“Monday Night Comedy night” This is watching Netflix online on the 10” HD movie screen like Comedy Central Roast of Charlie Sheen. I always try to change themes and activities at my parties.

Showing Hangover movie party I and II

Karaoke – At least have two or three Microphones

T & T - Therapy Tuesday

Wine and Fondue – Dipping cheese and chocolate

Wednesday Wine Down

Have chocolate fountain you can pick one up pretty cheap at Bed, Bath and Beyond, Amazon, Ebay. Believe you will be the only guy in town with a chocolate fountain. Chicks love this.
Anyone who attends one of your events you want to always add them to your Facebook friends list.
PS3 Media Server software download to view photos and movies from your local computer on to your PS3
WD TV live has USB port , Apple TV, Roku TV - These devices show Youtube or Photo slideshow
Kickball Waka– They play kickball at night and afterwards they play flip cup at some local bar. Great place to make new friends.

If an event of some kind comes to town like a festival that looks cool to go to I would put up an event on Facebook and invite my all my friends.

How to buy a movie screen:

On Ebay you can buy a to 10” movie screen for about $250.00 and HD projector for about $850.00. A Bose sound system is the best to use. They also make an outdoor movie screens. This works great if you have a pool or you can have a Sunday Fun day barbecue.
Phase development:

Phase 1 of your PUA development has to be meeting and greeting people of getting phone numbers and doing pick up.

Phase 2 of your PUA development is throwing a monthly theme parties at your house. This is my favorite environment to be in.

The Benefits:
As you can see it a lot of work to put an Alpha male party place together. The by product is that you get invited to so many different events that your new friends are having. I don’t know how many times I get texts from people inviting me to happy hours, birthday parties, movies, etc… Your social circle is always dynamically expanding outwards. Your social skills in communicating will increase. Women are attracted to men who have a plan.

The Plan:
If you are up to the challenge of having a party every month at your house then here are steps of doing it.
Step 1: Tell your inner party crew that you want to throw a monthly wine and cheese or martini party.
Step 2: Identify who among your friends who will be the bartender, Photographer, DJ
Step 3: You will have to setup a dance floor area, karaoke machine, Bear Ninja Hunter, and ring toss.
Step 4: All tasteful photos and videos are posted on Facebook for social proof.

My 5 by 5 rule.
Go out five nights a week and talk to 5 different people. Only drink Red bull when you go out. Get your teeth bleached. I use Britesmile. I think they work the best.

Albert