Of all the best personalities I could think of, one of them would have to be being flirtatious. Girls love it when they're being flirted with (assuming that they are single), but I can't think of any ways of how to be that kind of guy .

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"I've learned it's important not to limit yourself. You can do whatever you really love to do, no matter what it is." - Ryan Gosling

Girls still like to flirt even when they're in relationships! Flirting is a harmless exercise that can excite girls without them technically cheating on their partner.

Conversing with people/girls in general will help you to be flirtatious.
Sometimes flirting can just be fluff talk but your voice, body language and the underlying tone of the conversation may subtly hint at being sexual.

Other times I like to think of it as 'playful teasing'
Part of is learning to calibrate.
Enjoying the process is key.
Having fun talking to women will naturally help you learn

its just like teaching how to dance by text...

vocal tonality is most important. yeah watch mensroomtv on youtube and theres this fat dude with hat. he defines it pretty good.

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Agreed with most of that.

nrjose - define 'flirty'. Picture a man flirting with a woman. What is it about that interaction that makes you think they're flirting? Chances are, both are smiling, maybe laughing a bit, there is perhaps a sexual undertone to it but not necessarily an overt one, and both are enjoying the interaction.

I actually find that old men (like ones in their 70s, not middle aged) are usually good at this. I suppose they've lived their hard life, are now retired, have achieved what they wanted to, have probably been married and have some decent experience with women over the years. They don't have hang ups like we do, they're not nervous because they know what's important in life and know that if a stuffy girl doesn't join in their conversation it's not going to make any difference to their life whatsoever. They see a girl on a till in a shop or something and just flirt mildly with them - they have no intention (or no expectation) that they will end up fucking her, they just simply do it to enjoy themselves and to give the girl some light hearted entertainment as well.

Taking pick up too seriously is a problem on here. Sometimes, don't worry about the mechanics of a set and all that stuff. Just go and enjoy yourself, have a laugh, be light hearted and most importantly enjoy the interaction.

Awesome advice, 7000.

I guess the definition of being flirty is to display sexual interest in a playful manner. What you said is true: When people flirt, chances are, both partners are smiling, laughing, and there exists a sexual undertone that isn't openly stated, but hinted and acknowledged. Both are also enjoying the interaction as well, with some playful touchings here and there.

The reason why I'm oblivious as to how to flirt is because I've never done it to anyone before. And if I did know how to flirt and applied it on an HB, then I could end up scaring her away or compromising our already-mutual friendship because what if I've flirted with her the wrong way? And what really scares me the most is losing a valuable friendship with an HB, which is why I want to learn how to flirt the right and proper way.

Vocal tonality, body language, and kino are probably the three things that make up a flirtatious vibe, as well as the topics being discussed and other key info that I still don't know yet. But according to Dodgyy, if talking to girls in general will help me develop a flirty personality, then I guess it's a good place to start.

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"I've learned it's important not to limit yourself. You can do whatever you really love to do, no matter what it is." - Ryan Gosling

I call girls "sweetheart" all the time. Even strangers. I know a guy who addresses girls as "Beautiful", even ugly ones. Trust me, that gets you much further. It puts a smile on their face and makes it easier for them to talk to you.

And find a way to joke or tease them about anything they do, even if it's something totally mundane. That kind of stuff creates sexual tension.

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This is true everyone like the body which is good looking or well maintained,Not only girls but boys like it too and they want to be like the other person who is training or something because who doesn't like being physically fit?if someone is doing it they should keep doing it,and if somebody isn't they should start.

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