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What makes a job attractive- how you do it.
I can be a baker. Or I can win "Cupcake Wars" and be the best fucking baker out there.
I can be a hair designer. Or I can be a hair designer for Angelina Jolie.
Just don't settle for those dead end jobs. I understand someone's gotta do it, and if that someone is you, fine. But I just don't get the reason behind it.
Hmm. But you can't be the best baker out there. Realistically. Is there much chance of you getting your own bakery programme on TV? There isn't much chance of you styling Angelina Jolie' hair. Realistically.
And even then, to be honest, regardless of whose hair you're styling, some girls won't find it attractive. Some girl will have connotation about a particular job regardless of how good you are at it or anything else.
Now having a passion about it, and wanting to be as good as you can be at it is a different kettle of fish. If you don't really care about your job, chances are it isn't going to be attractive. And even if the girl finds the actual job boring, if she can see you have a passion about it, it can work in your favour (as long as you don't drone on about it and bore her to death). But that is a different thing to trying to be the best out of everyone. Don't get so het up with competing with others and being the best, unless you're in a tiny 0.1% proportion of the population, you're not going to be "the best" and you'll only ever build yourself up for disappointment.
A job can be overthought, but in reality it's much the same as everything else; stop overthinking it, do something you at least mildly enjoy and ideally do something you have a passion about. If your job is boring, then so what? If it brings in the money at the end of the month, then do something else that makes you more attractive. Attractiveness is far more about a mental attitude and a way of being; it's not defined by individual facets such as 'how attractive your job' is, or 'how well educated' you are, or 'how rich' you are.