Every PUA needs to do these things. I'll elaborate on them later. I've just got a list. I'll go over each one in depth in later posts and why they are important for your game.
1. Make some goals for yourself and a plan to accomplish them
2. Find, or develop a group of like-minded people with similar goals and support one another
3. Find someone successful at what you want and make them your mentor
4. Give back one you have what you want
5. Invest in improving your game seriously by educating yourself on subjects that indirectly and directly apply to game like psychology, communications, etc
6. READ… LEARN… DO…
7. Take advantage of all of your good qualities… make a list
8. Find out what your bad qualities are and work on getting rid of them
9. Move out of your parents’ basement
10. Get a degree and/or get a job or 2 or 3
11. Save your money and get your money right
12. Start working on getting financially secure
13. Work on getting a good car
14. Work on getting a good home
15. Learn how to take care of yourself and fix things: cook, fix things around the house, fix a car… etc
16. Buy nice shoes and clothes that make you look sexy. Get gay guys and hot girls opinions
17. Peacock (NOT LIKE MYSTERY!): buy things you can wear that make you stand out in a good way
18. Get a tan (but don’t become a sun worshiper)
19. Get a sexy hair cut
20. Keep your beard trim and shave
21. If you’re bald or balding deal with it
22. Keep all body hair trimmed
23. Wash yer balls and do cock exercises... some of them work...
25. Keep nails short and clean
26. Fix your teeth if they are messed up... get braces... whiten... whatever
27. Make sure you always have fresh breath
28. Shower twice a day
29. Make sure you smell good
30. Use good cologne/aftershave
31. Live HEALTHY
32. Work Out… lose weight gain muscle
33. Diet
34. Sleep Right
35. Don’t use hos when you can't get laid for free! Shouldn't have to say that... but yeah...
36. Don’t go to strip clubs
37. Don’t watch porn
38. Don’t masturbate
39. Deal with any serious addictions in a 12 step program or rehab
40. Go to a shrink to deal with depression or mental issues that can fuck up your game
41. Play sports
42. Learn martial arts and basic self defense
43. Do adventurous and dangerous things
44. Get cultured
45. Invest heavily in self help material
46. Get involved in your community and in causes
47. Make friends who are a positive influence and push you toward your goals and dreams… spend less time with friends who don’t
48. Keep your home clean
49. Keep your car clean
50. Keep up with pop culture
51. Keep up with the news
52. Keep up with chick crack (example: read Cosmo)
53. Get some pets
54. Get some tats
55. Get a motorcycle
56. Learn some fucking manners and chivalry
57. Learn comedy
58. Take acting classes
59. Get a voice coach
60. Find talents you didn't know you had
OK, this list is by no means exhaustive and most of these I don't think need an explanation. The reason these things are important is that they help you round yourself out when you know game. If you only have game but you dress like a slob it won't be congruent and you will miss opportunities. Without game you're hopeless. With just game you're a player. With game and non-game advantages you are a shark in the water. Also I think it's common sense, but you should always take advantage of whatever natural gifts you do have and cultivate the things you don't have. Why make life harder on yourself?
If you think of something I missed feel free to add it!
More to come later...
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