Unattractive Appearence vs. Unattractive Lifestyle
A lot of men new to the game worry that their physical features will not allow them to attract women. Worry about the lack of sexual appeal you physically possess is the cause of a lot of needless self esteem issues.

Having natural unattractive physical traits differs from having unattractive physical traits that you cause yourself.

Some examples of natural unnattractive physical traits would include a big nose, early hair loss, acne scars from your teenage years, and being too short (or too tall).

Some examples of unattractive physical traits men can bring upon themselves include being overweight or obese (assuming a medical condition isn't involved), speaking in a quiet voice, poorly chosen tattoos, and smelling of cigarettes.

The first category will never inhibit your ability to attract a woman because these things are out of your control and a woman on some level realize this. However, when you eat too much and don't exercise, causing you to become overweight or obese, women will not only reject this because it's unattractive, but also because it reveals lack of control over some areas in your life.

The good news is that men can address some natural traits they have. There is acne creams, hair regeneration products for men and other things that men can use to improve their appearence.

Your looks will never truly determine whether or not you attract and keep a woman. It's all about how you make her feel.

Finally, a quick word about fashion. I've learned that some of the best results you can obtain with women can arrive from just having a nice, clean appearence. You don't need to peacock. You don't need to buy the most expensive clothes. Instead, having a nice, clean appearence can say to women all that needs to be said so you can focus on making them feel good in your interactions.

I'm glad someone is still posting about this. That's something that many of us here have been trying so hard to get into men's head but it just seems pointless to me now because there are the ones who already know this, and the ones who can't accept this absolute fact. Your looks might count about ONE particular girl, because girls have types, such as we guys. But to say that EVERY girl rejects them because of their looks is just so ignorant. And definitely, clean appearance is all you need. That's just it. And also...big nose is kind of manly you know... some girls even like that. It's about the attitude you take.

If you think :"My big nose is so ugly noone will ever love me" It's what's gonna happen.

However if you're like: "This unusually big nose I have, you know... The bitches are so digging it" Guess what's gonna happen...

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What I like in life is nothing more but living it.

It's the balance that matters. You need to take care of yourself and groom. But don't spend your life "getting in shape" for other people. Spend your time building a quality life for yourself.