it seems being winter now, i can't get a sun tan. but i live right across from the beach in florida. however i worry being extremely pail will turn women away. what do i do about this? and i don't want to use a tanning bed either.

I tried spray tans but then I realized by the time the chicks saw my whole tanned body they were already stuck. So it was a little ovgerkill plus i didnt liek going to a saloon or paying $60 a month. I also wouldn't use a real tan bed as its bad for your skin.

So now to combat my pale mien I just spray some Tanning color spray on my face and neck, as that's all they see at night, to add some color. The brand I use is "Drench". It seems to work well

I disagree with detox, i don't think it's a good idea to use product or tanning saloons. They have a number of toxic chemicals in them that you have to be aware of, do A LOT of research on all the ingredients in the products used to darken your skin before you go smearing a potentially harmful substance all over your body. I know for a fact that tanning saloons aren't good for you.

Tanning beds are fine in moderation, you don't ever want to burn, but there is nothing wrong with getting slight more pigment to your skin, it is not dangerous or harmful to your skin if you do not burn.

I see your dilemma. I live in a very sunny environment, and I can not tan... Even when I was a competitive swimmer. Also trying is just going to lead to skin cancer.

Some things about ourselves we can change, and others we can not. In your situation I focused on the thing I can change (joined the gym and studied psychology).

If you get buff enough, it will of set any lack of tan.

Dave

here's the thing, i live on the beach and i want to invest in outdoor activities like surfing. so if i go through with these things and can get a surfer to help me learn the ocean, then i'm gonna be tan eventually. but i don't want what you just said, and isnt their sunscreens out there good enough?

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If you get buff enough, it will of set any lack of tan.


here's the problem, i am not buff, and super slim weigh around 120, it seems i am going to have to lower my metabolism and all and get a trainer in order to get big, i just want pectoral muscles and arms really and to slim down my baby fat which is hardly noticeable but my leaning shows i have it. so thats a long proccess i'm thinking.

its a long process and it wont eliminate the pale issue you have.

Its certainly useful to be buf as a bonus for attraction, but being pale is an unrelated problem.

I don't think there's any point in trying to get the most badarse tan in the world, but a tiny bit of colour goes a long way.

been a while but what about the fact that tanning can clear acne in the early run before it comes back? thats another reason to want to tan. i'm just think about using a bed and getting it over with.

I use a bed no problem. Plenty of people do it. And I game hard at the tanning salon.
The girls there fuckin love me.

I acknowledge that it's not that great for you. But how bad could it be if so many people are doing it? The main reason I do it is because I work in fitness, so I want that sexy tanned fitness model look.

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i was thinking though of tanning at the gym, planet fitness has tanning among their platinum membership. i don't know if their beds may be more safer to use?

I like being at least moderately tan. This means lying out in the sun once per week in the summer. In the winter, I'll buy a 10-pass and lie in a tanning booth 1-2z per week.

I would do it anyway to prevent depression and S.A.D. It makes you stand out and look more vital, imo, especially in Salt Lake where the whiteness is blinding