Hey ALL.

I have been out of the game for a while, my social life sucks and at the moment im not interested in gaming women - I just want a social circle.

My finances are pretty tight, I work 9 -5 and I own a dog (which I cant leave in the weekday evenings). One or two of the places I could go to meet people like me, there is bad blood between me and others that go there.

this is my social plan - any help welcomed

Drawing on my current friends
- with my current friends that I do socialize with I will become pro active inviting them to hang (one has a child, the other i meet once a week for gaming session)
- I have met various acquitines who invite me to parties etc - I am going to communicate more with these people on facebook and take them up and any offers

NOW TO MEET NEW PEOPLE
- going to start MMA again and see if anyone want to do padwork / spar out of class
- going to look for local poker nights
- going to walk the dog in different parks
- go for a coffee / go to a bar for an hour
- look for dog classes in the local area
- go to the gym
- look for a local event / club im interested in.
- check the local university club lkisting and see if i am able to join

I figure that if i do two of these a week I will get more comfortable in these situations.

I do go out sometimes on a friday, I know some people at this club whom i speak to and have a beer with. However there are plenty of times im stood around and I see other stood on their own and I never go over and make convo. Any tips

Sorry if this has been asked hundreds of time before, I did some research and just wanted a PUAs opinion.

Hi,

First of all gaming is not only for picking up women. Every relationship happen the same way. It's just that with your friends you stop at C2 and maintain the connection.

So my first advice is to expand your network, especially because the friend who have child probably have less time to hang out. You already said that you are starting MMA, gym, going on a walk, poker ... it is perfect chance to expand network of friends and go out with them. Plus you have a great topic to talk about which everybody find interesting ... fitness programs that other use, poker game (poker player love to talk about their "poker game" and because it is rare that people listen to them, they always connect greatly with people who "listen"), talking with people about their dogs, etc. You will find the topic . Like i said use your game to know people. Establish this connection - that they will think that you are interesting guy. Everybody love to hang out with interesting people. But the best part is that all new friends, have their own friend circle - women and man. So the process never ends and you are surrounding yourself with more and more opportunities.

If the facebook is the only way to communicate with those guys, do that way otherwise is better to communicate live. You will make better deep connection. Plus you will train your communication skills.

Hope i help you. Peace