Maybe I'm wrong, but it seems that the guys who get good at the game seem to have devoted a lot of their time to getting good, almost as if they have as much time as they want, more or less. Good examples are people from 'The Game' such as style, who quite everything to devote their time to learning game.


I'm a Uni student in the UK, and a similar pattern keeps occurring to me. When I havn't got much work on my game improves and improves, often reaching a high point where I'll be getting with several girls a week, getting numbers and and occasional lay (I have sticking points). However this high-point only lasts about a week, maybe 2, because then my educational work takes over and I need to start workin hard in order to pass my unit.

This 2 to 4 week gap DESTROYS any game i had and I virtually regress back to a complete afc. This has happened about 3 times now and its infuriating. Luckily I'm now going into my last year so it soon shouldn't be so much of a problem.


Does anyone else have this kind of problem, or am I right in thinking that the only way to get really REALLY good at this game is to have a good amount of free time, and to devote a lot it to sarging???

I know what you're talking about, I have the same situation. I'm on masters studies and thanks to them in one month i can go from great pua to wbafc.

I used to be pissed of about this, but now I have accepted it. Its about making your priorities straight and I can see you've done that.

Gaming girls is much like working out. You can stop training for a while, even gain weight, but your body remembers everything you've invested in it. And the more effort you put into, the less time you'll need to get back on track.

In my experience going out for two weeks (almost every day) will get you back on track.

Good luck with your studies and your game.

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Your game should not deteriorate that dramatically every time you get busy. My best guess is that your frame is off whenever you are not constantly sarging. That could be because you just started PU and your game still requires a lot of conscious thought. Or it could be that you're too preoccupied with school work to clear your head even when you're out. Either way, you should find a way to turn off your study mode and dedicate your mind to other things.

Contrary to Defy's point, game is not like working out. It's more like being able to swim. Even if you don't dip into the ocean for a few weeks, you still shouldn't drown on your next attempt.

Yea I find it to be a 2 steps forward 1 step back thing. Right now my life is a bit off a mess and it's screwing with my inner game, but I'm still much better than where I was before getting into PUA.

Most guys seem to ride waves of success/failures, I did before getting into PUA and I still do now, but since learning PUA I guess I've raised the bar of where these waves occur. Now when I'm on a high I can pull off more successes, but when I'm on a low I don't bomb as nearly badly as I used to.

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Practice your game on just other students that you know just to see how they react, not so much the number and pick up part . Maybe soem routines that you developed yourself or heard about.

OMG bro! This is exactly what happened to me last night. Now before i even begin, please let me make it clear to everyone that im no PUA. As a matter of fact at 27 i have only slept with seven girls the best being a HB6.5 ish. i'm Sri Lankan 5’6 - so this doesn’t help my game. i wouldn’t say that im good looking but i am ripped from 3 years of gym.

Most of my issues come from the fact that im only interested in white girls. I’ve been reading up a lot on pua over the last few months and since then i can admit to a certain level that my confidence had grown.

So last night I was out with some work colleagues/gym buddies ( I also work in a Gym). Now there was this English kid in the group – aged 19 – this guy was a natural – he’s bounced from one girl to the next including some girl from my work, and when he’s introduced me to some of them I couldn’t say a sentence which made any sense. From then on I spent most of the night bouncing from one group to the next – there were HB’s everywhere but I think I came across as an idiot from every angle because I couldn’t even create or maintain my frame. I agree to a certain level the this is due to the fact that I was uncomfortable with the group that I was in with – scared of being judged , not having anything interesting to say. Also my buddy who was another English lad whom I used to go out sarging with is now completely pussy whipped. I work in a gym where theres Hb’s everywhere.

Im sick of going out and wasting my cash on nothing only to watch guys that looks worse than me going home with better looking birds. Usually you have to have game to loose it. I have none and whatever I had had disappeared into smoke after not going out for a few weeks. What can I do about this?

For me, when I'm not feeling to great on the game front, AA kicks in and every time I see a girl I want to approach I just seem to distract myself or just walk right on by.
I change my targets.

I talk to GUYS, I'll go over and basically game guys, but with the intent to just get some social activity going on, I'll say it's my first time in this city even if I've been there loads, get a conversation going and more often than not, they'll drag me into the group and introduce me to others, girls included.

Getting that social acceptance gives the ego a quick boost, leads to possible HB's being INTRODUCED to you, so gets rid of having to approach, and generally sets me up in a better mood than I was before.

Like bdavidsonk said, game other students, make some new friends and get added into other social circles, it will keep your anxiety levels low because of the constant interaction plus make you feel more comfortable with yourself.