| Just coming out of my senior year in highschool with a strong social circle, here are a couple tips I'd give you.
1) look for any kind of "venue" you can get ahold of. Try to find the guy with a big house, start opening your place up, or find a "regular" place to go. A couple ideas:
- I did lawn chair nights at my place where we would smoke cigars / hookah and relax
- I also had a little bit of property; I hosted small parties almost every weekend. it was kind of "the spot"
- one of my buddies had a big house with a big tv, foosball table, and a pool
- one of my other friends had parents who went out of town a lot
- organize road trips
- movies, bowling, buffalo wild wings, various places to meet up at.
- highschool football, soccer, basketball, lacrosse, hockey, etc sports. follow a team
- keep your eyes open for any place to start hangouts. Get crafty! one of my friends was in a band and rented a studio. We hit up the studio almost every weekend now to drink and have a good time without worrying about 5-0.
2) connect with as many people as you can, the more people you come across, the more likely you'll find a social connector or value connector (person with a big house, venues, access to alcohol, access to girls, etc)
- the more people, the better
- focus on becoming cool with 1-2 really good female friends; my friend grace was one of the reasons why girls started showing up to my parties at first
3) start inviting people to your get-togethers!
- if you can access parties, games, and if you can organize events, start inviting people!
-be the HUB of your social circle; be the guy that calls it all together.
-invite people you barely even know! I thought 1-2 people were kinda cool, but I didn't know them too well. A simple "hey man, you should stop by my party on saturday" introduced me to some of my best friends.
4) continue connecting and building a reputation
-the more people, the better
-you'll experience great relationships with your bros, while coming into contact with more girls
-if you can start hosting parties, coming into contact with parties, organizing events, and following teams, you can bring people together and start good relationships
-another note, you can always ask people for beer money or start an overhead (with the exception of girls of course)
Hope it helps man!
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) I found that what girls were the most attracted to was someone who had the social connections to make sure them (and hopefully their group of friends aswell) always had something fun to do. If your not already, try and work your way into the party scene at your school, thats the best lifestyle for attracting women to you, they will want to talk to you and view you as someone who has the ability to bring them places where they wouldnt otherwise be able to go without you. The great thing about this is you can mesh groups. say you invite her and her friends out to one of your buddys parties, they will likely return the favor and you get to meet all new groups of people from other schools etc etc. Try and build friendly conections with everyone and once youve got a good friend groups who has a constant variety of friday night party options, your naturally going to be more attractive. Thats an attractive lifestyle for high school girl.