Hi guys, this may seem like an odd question, but bare with me for a moment. Also, this DOES relate to picking up girls, but this is a lot more of a general life skill oriented question. So we've all been asked questions that challenge our integrity or authority, yes? As an example; Your manager comes up to you and tells you, performance wise, that you acted unsatisfactory, when you whole-heartedly believe otherwise. The question is, what is the BEST way to handle such an issue? There are what i believe to be three ways to perceive oneself when asked such a question:

Supplicative- you verbally concede to their statement, understanding that their opinion is not reflective of your own value. On the other hand, by conceding, you may be perceived as a pushover, thus appearing as a weak, supplicating bitch, essentially.

Assertion- You challenge their statement and explain otherwise. This may be seen as an act of dominance, showing you're not willing to back down so easily. This would be in line with a positive belief system, and ultimately remaining attractive.

Arrogance- this would be the same scenario as assertion, but it is dependent on the perspective of the other party (this is a specific case, as you would be dealing with your superior), where they may deem you unwilling to concede to other's thoughts when advisable, or unwilling to learn from others. This may come off as thickheaded or foolhardy, and will ultimately cause you to appear less attractive.

So if you haven't understood my question or point i'm trying to make by not, it's this; Where do we draw the line between verbally standing by our beliefs or simply just agreeing with them, but knowing otherwise? Is it situational based? Judgement based? Belief based?

Would love some outsider insight on this!