YOu gotta change your logistics man! Damn I mean...most of the advice I saw when I scanned through this was about changing your game to fit the same logistics you have been using and gaming the same types of women, partyers, bargoers and clubbers...Thats crap!

CHange your fucking logistics! Jesus! Are there no critical thinkers out there? Stop trying to game women who are of that type and go for the more classy kinds. And instead of doing the same old bar room game, try doing day game, and signing up for meeting groups that do different activities not centered around drinking...or signing up for classes...or going out and doing things that, um...dont involve drinking!

I personally hate bar room game and cant stand drunken girls. And guess what? As much as most of these other PUAs will have you believe, THE GAME IS NOT DESIGNED FOR DRUNKEN BAR ROOM BITCHES! Its designed for getting higher value women, and these women are not the highest of value, by far. And again, regardless of what most PUAs will have you believe, the bar is not the highest logistical value location. Places where you can go to do things that interest you specifically which will attract women of hte personality type you want and provide situational openers are.

And it sounds like you are a much higher caliber person than your average drunken bar room slut who would give a shit that your not drinking. HOnestly I dont drink when I go out and women dont notice, or if they do they respect it. Why? Because when I do go out to bars and clubs I go out to the highest class places, where people dont go to just get drunk. So if you are going out to bars, make them the most classy places you can find in your city. Thats really what the game is for anyways, its not for use at dive bars where women are just getting drunk and making out with whoever.

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I've never really quit drinking but I grew up around a couple of alcoholics so I've always been real careful with alcohol. I'll often just have a beer or two and then switch to having a coke or sometimes even water. It is real seldom that anyone asks me why I'm not drinking but if they do I just tell them that "someone has to drive your drunk ass home".
Another option is to start a savings account with all the money your saving on not buying drinks. That's what I did years ago when I hung around with a crowd that was into cocaine. I didn't want to lecture them on their drug use or have to keep turning down lines offered to me. I just said a couple times how I was saving for a house and didn't want to do their stuff when I wasn't going to be buying any. I bought a house less than a year later when I was 24 years old. Wasn't long and a few of them were saving too.

Ive come across this issue myself. I'm going to keep this simple for you though. You dont want to be the downer who seems like your anti alcohol so if someone wants you to try a cocktail they made or something obviously you may want to do it so as not to give a bad impression. You can also use owen cooks method of dealing with peer pressure, which is to accept a drink, and then just pour it out when people arent looking. But the bottom line here is that you do not have to drink with others if you can just keep your energy level up to match theirs and have fun with them. If you let your energy level go down then you become that boring guy who cant have a good time with them, and they may see it as your not being a drinker or they may just think you dont have a good enough personality. So just work on keeping your energy up and if you have to you can even pretend to have a drink here or there. But you will find that as long as you are on your game, people actually appreciate those who do not drink, especially women.

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I used to be that way.
When I was in university, I went super-alcohol mode every single day.
Most of the times I've been drunk, but it wasn't an addiction, just an urge to get drunk and have fun every day.
I got used to it.

So how did I solve it?
Nowadays, I just go to bars and buy one beer and keep taking small sips from it for the whole night. Sometimes I buy another beer. But 2 beers are nothing to be honest.

When people ask me "why aren't you drinking?" or "Come on, still on your first beer?".
I just answer with confidence things like "Haha, how much did you drink so far?" and they would just start listing the shots they had and useless talk. The main reason behind this is to diverge the topic so they don't focus on it anymore.

If you reply with a "Why are YOU drinking?", they will make a big deal out of it and a useless argument will occur.

FUCK THAT. I havent drank for three years and i used to be a drug addict alcoholic piece of shit. When someone asks me "why dont you drink" i tell them "I'm a man and i dont need to use drugs or alchohol as a clutch to talk to roaches like you" lmao true story bra

It is indeed difficult, and now this society, the basic communicative competence is by alcohol, tobacco and alcohol have a good talk, but you can do as much as possible close to drink.