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 Post subject: How to be sociable
PostPosted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 12:07 am 
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i do not know what to talk about when i talk to people, when i do start a conversation no one cares what im talking about. also when people talk to me sometimes i dont know what to say so they take it as a sign of disinterest and stop talkin to me. how do i change this?


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 12:17 am 
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it might be time to work on your inner game and confidence.
everyone wants to hear about what you are really passionate about.
test it by talking about somthing really odd like geology. your story dusnt need to be awesome - you are awesome. your story gives them the chance to interact with you. believe in yourself and work on momentum building.


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I was in the same place as you until I read the book "How to Talk to Anyone 21 Secrets" by Marcus Oakey.

but make sure you apply all those techniques.
there are lot of people put there who have read a ton of books on self-improvement,pickup,etc but they never got anywhere because they did not apply the concepts taught in them


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 19, 2012 1:58 am 
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I was in the same place as you until I read the book "How to Talk to Anyone 21 Secrets" by Marcus Oakey.

but make sure you apply all those techniques.
there are lot of people put there who have read a ton of books on self-improvement,pickup,etc but they never got anywhere because they did not apply the concepts taught in them
Can you tell more about the secrets in the book? It sounds very interesting. And I love hearing about secrets related to communication.

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 Post subject: Re: How to be sociable
PostPosted: Tue Nov 27, 2012 9:23 pm 
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Bro i have exactly the same problem at new school, i was interested to know more and how to slove this problem cuz it really stops my game or even social life.

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 Post subject: Re: How to be sociable
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Nobody wants to talk to a lame person. Low energy, not very interesting, boring, etc. You need to first be enthusiastic. I knew a guy who sold binoculars for a living. People would always be like "That's all you sell, just binoculars?" Then he'd be like "No. Not just binoculars....I sell BINOCULARS!" Why would anyone want to buy a pair of shitty binoculars unless you were excited about them and made them seem interesting? That's the point I'm making.

I have a low-key personality and I come across as quiet and boring sometimes. This is not a good trait for pickup. You probably are the same way. Humor helps because if you are laughing and joking it makes everything a little more interesting. You also have to keep the other people involved in the conversation and talk about things they want to talk about. This comes down to basic conversational skills and learning how to make friends and influence people. I'd recommend further reading on this.

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If you're shy or lack confidence, talking to people can be very stressful. That's why it's a good idea to work to improve your social skills. Once you feel comfortable interacting with people in a social setting, you'll see the benefits immediately. You'll meet new friends, you'll be exposed to new experiences, and you'll feel 100 percent better about yourself. Here are some simple steps to help you feel comfortable in public.


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According to Giant Jerseys For Sale http://www.giantsjerseysforsale.com/ openion
If you're shy or lack confidence, talking to people can be very stressful. That's why it's a good idea to work to improve your social skills. Once you feel comfortable interacting with people in a social setting, you'll see the benefits immediately. You'll meet new friends, you'll be exposed to new experiences, and you'll feel 100 percent better about yourself. Here are some simple steps to help you feel comfortable in public.
can u provide or suggest any ways that we can work on improving our skill?

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 Post subject: Re: How to be sociable
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A good mindset to have if you want to be more comfortable and confident around people is to realize that most people just want other people to like them. Most people have the same anxieties as you do when they meet you. They want you to like them, to genuinely be interested in them and value them.

Smile at them, laugh at their jokes, make good eye contact, lighten the mood and make them feel good and comfortable. Take the focus off yourself.

It's the law of reciprocation. If you treat people kindly and make them feel good, almost all the time they'll like you. If you ignore people and treat them coldly and make them feel undervalued they wont want to talk to you and they'll ignore YOU.

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 Post subject: Re: How to be sociable
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Yes, if you take a genuine interest in people then you will naturally know what to ask them about, based on their previous answers in the conversation.


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