I saw the "building an attractive lifestyle" thread and felt compelled to post this.

This is the quintessential lifestyle for every single person on the planet - because it is YOUR quintessential lifestyle. That will always be the most attractive. Here is how to figure it out and move towards it.
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If what is going through your mind here is "what would a bunch of women think is sexy"? You are already in a beta (supplicating) mindset to begin with. Dear god dont take action.

You need to really find yourself here and do literally what it is that you would do if you could do anything. Im talking about the worlds best _______. Dream big and dont feel like you have to tell anyone this. It is for you. Once you have that then work backwards to see how you can move towards that from where you are now.

Print a picture or do something to remind you of that ultimate life that you want every single day. I have visual imagery all over areas I frequent (work space, bathroom, car) that are there to keep my mind on track.

The test now is - "If it is not aligned with that goal of my ultimate desired lifestyle, I am supplicating." It is literally as simple as that.

You should write this lifestyle down in as much detail as possible by te way. I can post more on specifics of how to do this if desired as well.


If your wondering about credibility from me and/or this philosophy:

I have been living this way for the past year or so and directing it towards my business life. I am on track to do even bigger things than I dreamed of initially now. I am an entrepreneur who has a vision for the world that will (as a byproduct) cause my company to be more powerful than Apple, Virgin, and anything that has ever been before us.

My dream is so huge that I wont even talk about it because I will sound crazy. Im sure everyone reading this is thinking "good luck with that pal". It doesn't deter me at all though because I am focused on it and have been taking action towards it for the past year. I am right on track to do it too.

For the philosophy - it is the exact thing that "the secret", "think and grow rich", and "tony robbins" entire programs are founded on. It is the core within every form of self help out there. It is so fucking simple but it requires that you do whatever the hell you have to in your mind and life and everywhere to DO IT. Once you start DOING IT and moving forward towards this, you will see that any resistance you were getting from friends and family goes away. They embrace it. It is literally just like Gandhi said - "First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win."

The path was exactly this way for me. Now I have won in the sense that I have framed myself in my friends and family's mind as an entrepreneur. They accept that as a given and embrace it now.

This is the process people. The most attractive lifestyle is not some bullshit collective of what you think society deems "cool". That is selling out and you will crash and burn from it eventually. Youve got to tie your goals to the highest power you can see and furiously move towards it.

Fuck saying I want X money, I want X women, I want X anything. Fuck all forms of quantified everything and material shit. That will all come as a byproduct of figuring out the emotional states you want to be in and the feelings of accomplishment you want to live with.

Become aware to see where your greatest desires lay within you and take MASSIVE ACTION to actualize them. Stop at nothing. Go psychotic. You are the only thing that matters in the end.

If you take this leap of faith and embrace the conviction that you will die before you give up living the life of your dreams. You will have every other one of these smaller needs (women) met as a byproduct.

There is nothing more attractive and inspiring to someone then someone who has crafted their own path and relentlessly pursuing it. Do this and you will as a byproduct built the most attractive lifestyle you ever could be able to.

Amen to that .