For this section my aim is to build your confidence and help you come across as a normal social guy, I hope you's will also be working on your fashion and grooming too!

This post is about how to learn the skills properly.

Now, the sticking point is "what do I say?", if you follow this guide you could have that sticking point busted fairly quickly.

Unless you can hold a normal conversation your PU techniques will be useless!

So where to start, well... start small, set goals that are achievable

For example:

1. Make it your goal to make eye contact, smile and say "hi" to a few girls a night or if you're out in the daytime till you don't feel nervous about it anymore. This is a good exercise to do constantly anyway.

2. Next you can start to extend by making small talk in situations like when you're standing at a busy bar and you catch eye contact with a random person beside you "omg this place is packed out tonight" if you get a response theres your invitation to go a little further, its good to make little friendly observations like this about the occasion but remember don't come across like you're bitching/complaining.

3. Once you've got used to a little small talk you can try to extend the conversation a little more with girls, just ask something like "What are you's up to tonight", at this point it's good to find out who everyone is, where they are from and introduce yourself to them, this is good practice because you can find out if they are single/have their boyfriends with them and logistics, this is a tactic of SNL game.

Note: when you are working on these sticking points don't out stay your wellcome, these are only exercises to get your confidence up to a level where you will be able to start employing PU tactics, when you reach 3. you can start to think about adding in routines or whatever but you will not be ready for cold approach yet. these conversations should only be 3-4 minutes unless you have somewhere to go with it or something interesting to talk about.

Then when you feel your confident with your social skills you should have a standardised game plan in place.

This is my game plan, it's very simple but it's all I need

Step 1.
Be social and build social proof by smiling and saying "Hi" to random girls and making friendly short small talk for the first hour or so.

Step 2.
Begin to work towards closing by employing your PU tactics.

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