A few years ago I met a girl, Amber who I became good friend with. She was a hb 8 as well, I always thought of her as a friend. We hung out at college like everyday for almost a year, went shopping together and hung out. Over the summer we were suppose to grab drinks on Friday. We made plans to go out but never specified a time. On Friday around 6 she txted me and said to meet her at 7, I said I couldn’t go at 7, lets go at 9, then I get a txt back and she said that was too late, cause she had to work at 6 in the morning. I got pissed cause I had to get up early too and I just blew off a hot chick so we could hang out. I called Amber, but she did not pick up.

I haven’t txted her or called her to this day..
I did get a txt from her about 2 weeks after this asking if I was at school and what my schedule was like.. I was still a little pissed so I did not txt her back.. that was the last I herd from her.

I want to see her again, but I feel like my pride is holding me back from talking to her. Its weird from seeing someone all the time and then not seeing them for 7 months at all. What do you guys think??

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When she's guessing, you're safe. When she thinks you're safe, you're dead.

Grow some balls and go talk to her.

Your making yourself weak by not doing so.

Pretty much what he said.



But seriously, She only just txted you 2 weeks ago after 7-8 months? thats pretty weird, I'm guessing you made most the effort?

-SoZoS

Yeah I guess I did make the majority of the effort

I did end up texting her the other day. It turns she moved to Chicago and lost my number when her purse got stolen about 5 months ago. She was very excited to hear from my and I apologized. We have been talking a lot lately about all the shit that going on and all the fun we used to have. We’re hanging out next week when she comes home to see her family. Looking back on it, it was stupid of me to wait so long to talk to her, but I didn’t want to be the one apologizing when I felt that I didn’t really do much wrong. Also I felt like we were both waiting for each other to apologize and whoever did first would lose. I think that’s why I waited so long too. But it turns out she never had my num anyways. All in all I’m glad I did because she was a great friend...

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When she's guessing, you're safe. When she thinks you're safe, you're dead.