Hey guys,

So I was talking with my friends yesterday, and it was quite good conversation about life, our friends, our school (yes we're HS students):) And the "top guys" in my school were there, most of the are my best friends. The best girl in my school (best body) (we'll call her HB8.5) , the girl with the best personality (HB 7.5) , and 3 guys including me. I was really attracted to the HB 8.5 2 years ago, mostly because of her face (I didn't notice her body before, now it's getting so voluptuous) but what makes her more attractive, she's starting to lose her childiness and have more qualities. That's why this DAMN ol' feeling starts to get me again.

The conversation starts to get quite hot as we're talking about female and male preferences (we're all friends, so it's not a big deal). And finally I asked the guy let's call him HG 7 (hot guy) LOL.

Me: Hey dude, who's the guy who you think has the best quality in our school?
HG 7: Nobody..
HB 7.5: Hehehe... Then u have no quality too, Steve (laughing)
HB 8.5: Well, in my girl's opinion, it's HG 7 and "name"

I was quite shocked at that moment. I should confess that they really are great men, but none of them has great game. They don't have the best sense of humour, they're not popular, they don't have a lot girls, but they really are attractive as a person (got the balls to correct the mistakes of my friends, etc.). They are ATTRACTIVE (in HB 8.5's eyes). So that leaves contemplating last night...

"I got into the game not because I just wanted to be great in game, but also to be more attractive as a person, now HB 8.5 has stated what she think as attractive, and I had probed into myself, and now I'm confused what is actually ATTRACTIVE from a male??"

So guys, I humbly asks for your opinion:

What makes us a really ATTRACTIVE man?? AFC Adam says that "the attractive males are the ones who's emotionally stable, like a rock, therefore their qualities will shine much longer and more often". But still, I want an opinion from you guys.
Or I shouldn't have give it a shit about what HB 8.5 says?? (due to my emotional attachment to her 2 years ago, things are really different, isn't it?). IBecause I'm sure if I become a truly attractive person, it'll help my game a lot .

I'm sure that you guys won't say that the most attractive males are the ones who has 40 girlfriends. (that's seductive not attractive)

Any opinion, share it here!!

Best pal,
Steven

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I think an attractive guys is not by how you said; "had 40 girlfriends"

I believe its the one who can take care of everyone. Who's the protector as you say.

Now that i think of it, thats being Alpha lol. But yeah, that's what i believe.

Wether its giving your friends advice about something, honest opinion on it, one who's able to influence his peers in a good and healthy manner. That in my opinion is being an attractive man. Hope this helps.

- Redkid/Evolution

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Alpha doesnt take care of everybody, he doesnt care about others, he is the one that lives his own life..

Someone who is attractive has a powerful personality and can project it onto others.

You don't seem to understand that high school isn't the same as real life. High School is like dating 200 years ago. It's all about social proof and status at that point. These guys probably don't have the best game, but I'm sure their status is through the roof and almost everyone thinks they are popular.

All the stuff about attraction is specific to picking up women in an almost anonymous situation, like clubs or on the street. When you have a larger group mentality, you have to know how to use the group dynamics to your advantage. In these environments, women are controlled directly by their tribal instincts. If enough people think you are awesome, a girl who doesn't know you will think you are awesome by default. Basically if you want to be attractive in high school, you have to get a buzz going about you. You have to get your name known. You have to do things to make you the center of attention of the whole school. This is easy for athletes because the school provides them with a medium to get their name known (Letterman jackets, pep rally, school newspapers, daily announcements, games, practices, etc..). For normal people its very hard, short of being a rebellious trouble maker or some kind of over-the-top character, its hard to stand out from the crowd.