Here's a quick starter kit you can keep in a backpack or overnight bag for beginning play.

This falls under Sexual Mastery. It's not quite as universal as being able to find the g-spot, but being able to give a proper spanking, will make girls come. There are women to whom familiarity with any of this will be all the DHV you need, who just are'nt getting their hair pulled or bitten as hard as they'd want to be. It's also obviously dominant behavior *Snicker*

So fuck lame IOI's, the next girl in black you want to Kino, Look her in the eyes like you are the fucking dracula, grab her by the hair, bite her neck, and tell her you want to see her begging.

1 100 ft. length of Nylon rope, cut into 4 quarters.
1 pack of bamboo skewers
1 pack of clothespins
2 packs of white tapered candles
1 box of thin needles
2 rolls of electrical tape
1 small box of various metal tackle, D-rings, quick links.
1 butterknife
1 Paramedics scissors
2-3 rolls of self adhesive medical dressing/wrap
Condoms, Lube, Massage Lotion/Oil

This might cost you some 30-50 dollars tops, and will all you need for a beginner, and to be honest, this shit will take you all the way towards advanced.

Books: SM 101- Jay Wiseman, The Loving Dominant- John Warren

There are also various local social clubs that meet people like this to socialize and gain lessons, explore the kinky side of your city. Even if this ISN'T heavily your thing you will definitely meet and befriend the weirdest folks in your city.

Any questions on what any of this is, or how to use any of it properly, I'd be glad to answer questions on.

man... what the fuck.. how is this helping build a healthy lifestyle

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-Dre

If your going to question me, you better have a theory behind your argument.

"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself."
-Harvey Fierstein

I addressed this question in my post. Also, this is part of building an 'attractive lifestyle' so arguments over health can be held until later. I don't see what's unhealthy about knowing a sexual technique that can make a woman adore you.

I am not claiming this is a universal attractant, merely an additional part of your game and self you might wish to explore, i'm not the first Seduction Artist to suggest this theme. David Dieda, and Vin Di Carlo practically tell you to rip a woman's panties off of her and shove them in her mouth.

Vin di Carlo's theory on "Shaping' a relationship reads like a submissive training manual.

is this posted on the wrong forum/website?
thats something else then scissors, electrical tape or needles

im sure to use other techniques to build an attractive lifestyle

1 100 ft. length of Nylon rope, cut into 4 quarters.
1 pack of bamboo skewers
1 pack of clothespins
2 packs of white tapered candles
1 box of thin needles
2 rolls of electrical tape
1 small box of various metal tackle, D-rings, quick links.
1 butterknife
1 Paramedics scissors
2-3 rolls of self adhesive medical dressing/wrap

when i think of sex... i don't think of cold metallic objects that cause pain... i think of hot, sweaty sweet sexy time. not some screams of pain and blood..[/b]

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-Dre

If your going to question me, you better have a theory behind your argument.

"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself."
-Harvey Fierstein

It seems you've identified the fetish, you just don't understand it.

Also, this is a beginner's playkit, so I've left out things that would be really needed for any sort of blood play. The butterknife really is just the most common cold metallic phallus most people have lying around, and it's great for soft sensation play, or light scratches on a lover's back, it just FEELS like it has a terrifying sharp edge.

The "scariest" thing on this list is the needles, but they don't cause any bleeding, leave no scarring and are easily sanitized by pouring alcohol on them.

It's recommended that you try all these things on yourself first, before trying them on a lover. This stuff just looks and feels painful, and any marks will be gone in an hour or two.

However, I've known women that relish particularly nasty marks/bruises/scratches on their erogenous zones for days, so if you want to give her something to play with, and keep her panties wet, then by all means, leave a mark or a dozen.

This didn't get anywhere near the reception I was hoping for, perhaps it's just due to some misposting, or maybe I'm just genuinely an irredeemable pervert. If someone wants, I'm willing to try writing an article on introducing this sort of thing to your vanilla lovers, or ways to test the kink potential of particular play mates.