So we sarge hundreds and close hundreds of girls. I've noticed that during my sarging, there are some sets I really enjoy and I genuinely like the girl (beyond the fact that she is bare hot), whilst others (even if the girl is 9+ and I fully close) are a bit cumbersome, or I never actually 'click' with the girl, although she will click with me.

And it turns out there are always a few girls who I really like. Not like one-itis, but I mean you genuinely want to know them for company. You want to possess AND protect them. One of mine is HB8 Lucy who is just a cute loser bitch with braces.

So which girls do you keep around? MLTR's who are good in bed...good friends...or what? And do you get sentimental about certain girls?

Note, I find that the type of girls I keep around is not correlated with how much success I have with them, or how hot they are. It's something REAL that I like about them.

The girl who attracted me 8 yrs ago is quite different then girls I PU by that time. I was also huge fan of extra beautifull, model looking HB`s and it was biggest pleasure to sarge them and with every move I was making their bitch shiled would slightly going away before they would fall for me. In those time, usually the moment of my success and the moment when they lost aura of untouchableness, my interest for them woulf rapidly fall down. I enjoyed more the proscess of sarging then the actual prize, the HB itself. I was pretty upset with that fact because I was affraid that I won`t be able to find a girl interesting enough to be my LTR. Those hot, model looking girls were almost always actually insecure, low selfesteem, spoiled brats who had nothing more then good looks. They were always threated like little princesses and they were no challenge of any kind after they were once seduced. Then I met a beautifull girl who was, not cold and bitchy towards people like other SHB`s. No, she was very kind and warm towards everybody but only to friends level. As soon as somebody tried to Pick her up she would cut him off, but politely. I was doomed to 3 months of hard gaming with all weapons and tricks I knew and more she refused me, the more interested I was for her. Finally we hooked up and it still last, but its still intense as in the beginning. What`s she`s like when she managed to tied me up for that long (all my prevoius relatonships lastend not more then few weeks)? She is female natural master PUA without knowing that She has natural instincts to perfectly know what to do in every possible situation. She knows how to make me mad when I am too letargic, to calm me down when I am furious, to make me jealous when i flirt with other girls, to make me sympathetic when I become to ignorant, she knows every things that PUA discovered. I learned and improved my PUA skills so much just observeing and repeating stuff she does to me And also, in addition, she is great person, hard working, polite, charming, beautifull smile, simply adoring. I was lucky, very lucky to find such a person.

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It is as Hobbit says! We all have different tastes... But I think that generally we need to keep girls around that challenge us and are on our level! A difficult sarge increases the chances of me sticking around.

But it doesnt hurt if she is good in bed too!

Anyway, beauty has not much to do with how good your relationship will be, as long as you are attracted it is the inside that matters...

Keep the ones you enjoy their company! Yeah HB's are great to have around and a hell of a lot of fun sometimes, but if they're fake why continue with them if you've already seen what you can/want see from them in the first night or two (either their personality or them naked in your bed).

If you're not planning on PU all you're life you're going to settle down eventually so keep the girls that you want to get to know better. This is by no means saying go wife/girlfriend hunting everytime you go out, but those girls come along that you wanna get to know better.. so keep them around.

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I think it's all about chemistry. Feeling a rush physically, mentally, spiritually, or emotionally with a girl.

I think chemistry at its best is another way of saying "game on auto-pilot"

But chemistry easy comes and easy goes, at least in my case. I needed much more then chemistry to get hooked for one girl.

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What do you mean by challenging us?

By challenge I mean that:

In a relationship it is important that both persons are at the same level. It is important that the girl has something to offer you and that you have something to offer her. You help each other grow and improve yourselves. If a girl just agrees with me all the time and does not have a will of her own I lose my respect for her. I want her to have a different opinion, I want her to challenge my opinions, I need the intellectual sparring in order to grow!
Dont get me wrong, I dont mean a fight but rather new input! She needs to give me a new point of view and has to be able to stand her ground and the intellectual capacity to try to convince me to see things her way, or to understand my point of view.

Ezo

So basically help you grow as a person?

I see your point. Perhaps it is a matter of wording. I believe that infatuation comes and goes. But chemistry (the word I'm using, maybe better called "love" by the less emotionally distant) is more powerful, there are girls I have had incredible chemistry with that I could go years without seeing and immediately this unsaid connection occurs the instant we return, touch, talk.

Now, even with that being said. Nothing in life is lasting, not even life itself. Everything is rooted in impermanence. So the answer is in enjoying the moment. When that moment is shared with someone you choose to share it with, enjoy their presence and let go of the desire to hang onto them forever. Accept changes in your feelings as they occur. (Easier said than done I know, but something to strive for.)

Good philosophizing with you either way. Hope this helps.

Peace

Feeling is mutual

Marco

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