Hey, I'm looking for a guy like jesus who's totaly cool and awesome, alpha male by being loving friendly and down to earth, not the macho tom cruise guy.

Any suggestions?

I mean like totaly laid back, not embattled at all, at peace with himself and everybody. Almost genderless, no male ego or female bitchyness. Fucking neutral guy you just love to be with who ever you are.

I believe jesus was a dude like that, not the victim guy church fags portray him to be. The big lebowsky is not what im looking for the guy is a bitch, he runs aways from conflict, i want to face it head on with love man.

I think the lack of responses gives you your answer, that guy doesn't really exist.

What you're missing from the equation is masculine energy. Genderless doesn't attract girls, it's lifeless, boring and unnatural. Women respond to masculinity just like guys respond to a woman's femininity. The neutral guy you love to be around is the beta male and he's not getting laid.

If Jesus was a chick magnet (which I doubt, but who knows?) it was due to his passion and his status as a wise leader of men.