i slept with hands down the frekiest women that i have ever slept with in my life this past weekend. i met her the weekend before and ran a mix of natural game with a few pointers that i have picked up from the board and body language books. long story short i chilled with her friday- she opened the door in sexy pj's. i resisted my desire to rip her clothes off because i was in her house and didt want to make her feel like i had blatant intentions. long story short i leave her house at 2 am without any cookie. the next day she texts me in the evening and i was feeling lame for not closing on the night before so i decided to hang out with her and her friends the second night. long story short we get naked and fuck like pornstars complete with yelling, and clawing. it was great but i feel like she may be getting too attached. i dont want a relationship, and during the course of the week we spent alot of time on the phone and texting. i would like to have great sex without risking women falling in love with me. school me bros

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Dude just don't EVER tell her "i love you" because for some reason in their language it means "i will marry you".

As long as you do that and try to abstain from letting her meet your friends then you will be fine. If you want her as a fuck-buddy only phone her two days before you want to screw. The whole everyday texting and phoning thing is the type of stuff that couples do. You don't want her to think that you are in a relationship with her.

well first off thats the golden question of all men..... how can i have sex without to much attachment, eventually you havta explain to the girls your in a open relationship and that you find it ok to sleep with wemon other than her.. if you dont set down these preferances girls will feel as if your lying to them, of course like all interactions you banter, qualify then rapport and when you rapport you convey that your looking for a casual relationship... now alot of girls arnt open to this, but there are still girls out there that are hope it helps

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to succeed you must learn, to learn you must first fail

Id rather be the one in a relationship instead of some guy id pretend to be...

You have to be completely upfront when you start talking to them. Let them know in a nice way that you have other women in your life and you don't plan on settling down anytime soon. If they don't like it, they can leave. Most of them won't, and the ones that stay will find that incredibly attractive because a) you have lots of women in your life (preselection) and b) they know they can't have you, so they want you that much more.

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I do partially agree with Ethan but I wouldn't advise being upfront all at once beacuse it just conveys you want a bootycall anytime with no fun at all Just sex, if you banter first come on light hearted then as your in rapport you convey it she's more likey to be okay with it because she's comftorbale with you and she knows you can make her feel good emotionally, and when I say emotionally it doesn't mean shell be attached but instead shell feel more up for it because you convey your Fun to be with but no matter what you will havta let her know your up for open sex.

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if actions speak louder than words then imagine what your intentions are screaming

to succeed you must learn, to learn you must first fail

Id rather be the one in a relationship instead of some guy id pretend to be...

Admittedly, I have never had a one night stand or an open relationship. However, if I did I would at some point explain where me and this girl are at. I would explain that I do enjoy spending time with her (I wouldn't be in that spot if I didn't) but I'm not opened for an attached relationship just yet. If she's not happy about this then she's entitled to leave I won't stop her, I usually find happiness whether or not I'm with a girl or not anyway. She'll know I wasn't playing her. As long as I was openly honest (and you should be too) and well composed then I'm happy no matter what happened.

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