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The difference between a creeper and a player (consdiering both are PU read) is fine tuning. A truly attractive and socially adept guy would behave in the right way at the right time, whereas a creeper would do things before they're meant to be done. There's of course the opposite which is a guy who does things too slowly and bores his target out of the set.
Agreed. PUA = good timing, good sense of social appropriateness. Creeper = wanna be PUA with bad timing and poor sense of social approprietness.
Best way to avoid being a creeper, is to avoid standing around wondering what to do next. If you have no idea, just relax and laugh with the group, you don't always need to be center of attention at every single moment to still be the Alpha of the group. Guys that don't understand when to let that go for a minute usually wind up lonely that night.