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This may sound a little different to usual posts, but I seem to have a problem making girl 'friends'. I'm no demi god but I do quite well with attracting girls and getting with them, but I seem to have problems making friends with a lot of girls.
I have to admit I hit on/game most girls that I find attractive from the get go, as long as they aren't attached to my friends or anything, and I guess I usually start subconsciously hitting on girls I'm not particularly interested in as well. I've got myself into a mind set that girls should just be into me and its up to me if I like them or not, which is good when trying to get with the girls I like (I guess this is what I was working towards by getting into the game), but bad when just trying to make girl friends.
I'm looking for some advice on how to just make friends with girls, so like hanging out with them in a non-sexual way?
example. I have a new Spanish SPAM(at university) and she's good looking, but I'm not very interested, but she just doesn't seem too interested in hanging out watching films or whatever, whereas my guy SPAM just seems to connect with these girls like a some sort of gay best friend, not sure how he does it. Any advice would be appreciated, thanks.
It's pretty simple don't escalate, avoid touch, and show true generosity(it's not a bad thing but for a good friendship generosity should be non-reciprocal). The issues of every AFC, and how they consistently end up in the friend zone for added benefit you need to avoid flirting, I have a problem doing this but the lack of touch and escalation normally helps them realize that the relationship is limited to friendship.
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