Ok, so. This is the deal. I have already a girlfriend, but I decided to get something aside occasionally. But I'm not used to this. Usually I always went out in the more "traditional way" with a girl to have some kind of relationship.

So today I saw this cute young girl working as a cashier at a store. I saw her doing some eye contact so I thought I'll ask for her nr.

It was easy, just said that I found her cute and that I want her nr. for a coffee. She smiled and we exchanged our names. She gave me her nr. but said "yeah, but this is just like friends coffee right? because I have a boyfriend". I said "sure, it's just a coffee" (like a guy would say to a girl that she is cute and want her nr. just wants to be friends, funny )

First, do you guys think I should get her to some fancy coffee house or a more normal one. She looks like a student girl. Second, not sure how to handle with this one, since I just want to f**k her. I don't want a relationship or anything in the like. And I don't want to be doing a game for weeks on it as well. So...

If you guys would give me an advice would be great.

Thanks a lot.

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Friends fuck. Either she really just wants to be friends or like you have something on the side. Shes just saying dont get involved emotionally.

nothing fancy. as simple as you can manage. Don't pay for her coffee.

my guess is she already has a nice guy "boyfriend" that spends money on her and she is bored. Otherwise she wouldn't be going to see you.

I went out with the girl. I guess I found out the "answer" for it. Long distance relationship!

She told me that the guy lives far away and come just once a month to visit her. She is 21 years old, so I guess she is missing something...

You have a girlfriend.



Is your relationship with your girlfriend open? Does she know you want something on the side as well? Do you know where I am going with this?

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Take her to a coffee place shes never been before. If she really does have a bf you should tell her about yours. She will be more likely to f**k if you have one aswell. Because you both have something to lose.

Good luck