| So this answer is probably obvious and I will go ahead and answer my own question, but I just would like some input, and maybe be able to help some other people.
Tomorrow I have a girl coming over to study Anatomy with me, I have establish friendship rather quickly and a slight attraction. There is an accepted kino, and no awkwardness. Now, we also plan on baking a cake (her idea) since it was the professors birthday over the weekend, and we would give it to him that day in class. Now I keep thinking about what I want to do tomorrow and if I should plan it all out, or if I should just go for a natural approach and let it all unfold as it happens. Now the natural instinct in me is to let it unfold, but with all the PUA I have been cramming in my brain I am telling myself I should plan exactly where I want her and how to get her there.
Now by writing this post I already somewhat failed at not going along the natural path. Now, using NLP strategies similar to Ross Jefferies he strongly supports planning, so you can get what you want. However I feel this is wrong, and not the best way to pick up, since its a script, and not real. And I feel that improving a natural style game is much stronger than, scripted and manipulative games, because it can also translate into healthy realationships. Anywho with that aside, here is the scenario.
Girl:
- Established as friends (for ~ 4 weeks now)
- Kino is allowed joking around as friends and while working together
- She contacts me semi often, never I to her (IOI for attraction?)
- She has stated only 2 times about her boyfriend, which seemed vague and general
- I have not tried to take it anywhere yet
Ideas/Plans:
- Thought of using a boyfriend/time warp/Attraction NLP pattern
- Anchor having a fun time to me with some playful kino while baking
- Anchor reliability while studying
- Anchor signs of a supporter somewhere in between
Now I am not to sure if a boyfriend destroyer would work, I see here 2-4 times a week, either for class or studying. Class is 5 hours long, so we have a good 15-20 hours a week, sometimes more. So, I believe the proper thing would be a timewarp (which I have already somewhat done when we first meet, I anchored to a mutual friend) or extreme attraction. Then just continue this pattern, until I can be confident she is attracted to me, then go for the boyfriend destroyer.
So, the basic question is, plan, or don't plan?
Go all the way tomorrow, or play it over a longer period.
Oh also small tidbit, might be slightly important, but I doubt it.
Shes 22 and graduated, im 19 and second year. She works full time night shifts.
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