I don't know whether any of you guys have known a natural or men who are good around women, but you'll notice one extremely important aspect of the kind of conversation that man offers women: is that its fun! I'm not a natural, but I've been surrounded by men who are good with women all my life, and they are all good fun to be around.

If you asked yourself, what would it be like to meet me? What would your answer be? I've noticed for years women follow the men that aren't so serious, the man that they laugh with, is also usually the man who they trust and feel safe around. As a man, trust me, NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF LAUGHTER. If I had to give advice to any guy looking to get better with women it would be; just be more fun to be around.

So hears some practical applications which you can use in meeting women, that I've used in the past months:

1. "Fulfilling the stereotype of typical the 'men who would shag anything' philosophy". I was in a seminar, (I'm a student) and I ended up talking to this girl- who was a friend of a friend. The conversation steered towards a show she had just done, I told her I didn't go however, so I asked how it went. Now I can't remember fully what she said , but she something like her bra kept falling down. To which my reply was: "I wish I went now!" She laughed. Guys, we dated.

2. "Leading her through your specialist Salsa lesson" Your on the dancefloor, and you're bored- most men don't actually like dancing do we?! But you've got your female friends around you, or even a randomer. And so you take her hand, like Anotonio Bandaras, and you begin spinning her round. Let her grind your pelvis for about ten seconds- no more- otherwise she will pull away! Then again lift her hand above her head and just mess around like that.
I need to re- evaluate this one actually, get some more tricks.

3. "How very dare you" Playful bar work, whilst waiting for a drink, is brilliant too. You can do soo much here its scary; you can nudge the girl next to you, getting her to playfully nudge back; slap her with a straw; bet on who gets their drinks first (my favourite one, tell her: "I'm going to be heartbroken if you get served before me); tell her that your going to hit on her because your so unbelievably hot; ask her how her night has been; give her a hilarious pick up line (Listen darling I've got the STD, all I need now is the U- said with personal enjoyment in mind). Its really not that big of a deal, just remember, personal enjoyment is one of the key aspects of having fun.

4. "Pain" Pain is hilarious! Obviously not, you know, terrible pain, but seriously man getting hit in crotch with football is hilarious. Women say they want a man with a sense of humour- WHAT MAN HASN'T GOT A SENSE OF HUMOUR??? Describing painful situations, embarrassing moments or ridiculous desicions is a brilliant way to make the conversation move on, you can get sexual later.

There are many more, but don't take my word for it, think for yourself and realise that Fun is usually the most important part to SUCCESSFULLY meeting and greeting others. Add more ideas if you'd like.