yo so i started college recenty. i really dig this girl u know we hung out 2-3 times. i think she's interested in me but how do i know. theres lots of kino. but the main problem is she has a highschool boyfriend. don't think he even goes here...so what to do? wait it out?

how do i not get into the friend zone?

I would actually start off by reconsidering my decision to go after this girl seeing as how she's not really the most trustworthy one out there, what do you think?

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Women are plenty, time is not.

she's trustworthy. and there are other guys after her. and she's given mixed signals so i duno

there are so many single girls out there...Why would you go for this girl who has a boyfriend?

bring her either to her or your house and keep touch her more. then fuck her

WTF! I already saw so many threads about college and there are like 2 weeks left till it actually starts, did you start college in August??

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you shouldn't worry if she has a boyfriend, as long as it isn't a serious relationship.

Lots of guys are too clingy and force a girl to stay with them, there is also a good chance that their relationship is coming to an end and both of them know it.

Finally there are people who treat relationships like apartments, they slowly move all their emotional baggage to a new place and transition to a new relationship.
They are always in a relationship with some one

These people are often too needy themselves and are too scared to be out of a relationship.

Just be clear about your intentions

I'm a senior in college now, but I remember freshman year and how many girls with boyfriends back home cheated. My only suggestion to you is to make sure that you can live with being one of those guys. I know that most PUAs, especially in the beginning, are all into getting the girls, but you should also realize that as you get better, you have the power to effect others. Just something to keep in mind.

Also, a line I've used, and I think I got it from somebody in "The Game", is that when a girl says they have a boyfriend, I start asking how their relationship is, and will refer to a lack of adventure or excitement. I have yet to close a girl like this, but I do end up talking to them for at least 10 minutes (closing is something I am working really hard on). Good luck out there, but remember, your in college now and there are a whole lot of fish in this sea.

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"Yesterday's history, tomorrow's a mystery"

I totally agree where you are coming from. Right now I'm still in college and everyone here is in a relationship of some sort with their boyfriend in highschool. Even though this chick has a boyfriend, she probably wants something more. Probably more excitement.

Use her as a pivot so you can improve your social circle. Whats more important that pick up in college is that you want a strong social circle to move around in. This way you will be able to neutralize almost every HB and AMOG at your college. From here, you will also be able to communicate more naturally with other HBs, rather than using canned openers and routines. Besides, if you keep using your technology that you've been learning, others will find out that you've said the same shit of every other girl.

- Spire

Regarding that girl: the BF is OUT the equation, he is not here on the field, he can't provide the warmth, the laughs, the physical contact, none of that. I was in your situation a dozen time, had the girl about 10 times. Sometimes got serious, sometimes only got the juice cavern, but still. Just give yourself more time to close, in order for her to manage her self esteem during the transition (she needs time to make sure she really likes you in order not to feel like a slut).

Last advice, my understanding of the game, and I might be wrong coz I'm new to the forum (but not to the game), is that it's about getting laid. If you do genuinely fancy the girl, don't play. Just be yourself, playing fucks it up. Maybe at the beginning to crack her but no more. But then again, freshman...i'd say take it easy, play until you get bored then later you'll feel complete and ready for something serious.

So in line with Spire 5517, the key to college is building the network, end up having the choice between 5 parties every night, socialize in different groups. Actually it's also the key to business but different topic^^
When I was in college, I was in a few different boxes : metal fan / snowboarder-mountain redneck / geek. Well if you stick to the geek, or metal fans, no so much action going on. Snowboard girls are crazy for us, but in the Alps, not in Minnesota.

As much I as don't like frats, I had plenty in class with me, i made friends, did some crazy shit (this I always do even now at past 30yo...) that made me cool and got invited to some parties...and girls going there know where they step foot. Also stick to whoever organize cool events, music festivals etc, for me I used the fact that I am a photographer to offer my services etc.
No shame, break in social groups, it's college, a lot can be achieved there.

she will eventually dump her bf if she's worth it bro cuz every freshman chick wants it. keep ties with her, BUT NOT TOO CLOSE, and when she's single just get back on that but don't waste too much time cuz im a freshman too and im dealing with that shit too. plus there are way too many girls to ponder about 1. gene pool ftw

It is good to have a large social circle, but keep in mind why your in school and that is to get an education. Don't let your social life take over. It did for me and I haven't went back to finish school. I think you should have a solid social circle just keep in mind how much time and energy it takes to build relationships with all of these people. Most of the time they are worth is but it is a lot of effort to maintain these relationships after you make them as well. Having 200 friends you can hang out with is impossible to maintain(my freshmen year I was very well known). I have like 80 people I hang out with and that is hard to deal with, I never have a boring night, but I also can't ever kick it with my close friends or girls depending on the week(I work late 4 days a week).

Find the 2-3 networkers that seem to own a listing of most of the events every night and use their contacts is my recommendation. After that you will get all the social life you want with out nearly as many problems as far as too many people to kick it with, consistently standing people up because you have plans. Never getting a chance to kick it because plans overlap. etc.

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