There is a driving force behind attraction. Most men in the community realize (sometimes through experience) that buying a woman gifts or trying to impress a woman doesn’t work. It also doesn’t work to try and supplicate to women.

Because most men know this, sometimes their immediate plan is to go the complete opposite way. In order to do this they think they must become a jerk to get women. After all, they’ve seen jerks get women all their life. Some starting noticing it in high school, college or some begin to see it in their workplace.

However, the real driving force behind attraction isn’t being nice or being a jerk. It also isn’t money, fame, looks etc.......because all these things are sometimes helpful but not necessary. What is necessary is for a guy to become dominant. A dominant man makes decisions. A dominant man approaches women. A dominant man doesn’t do everything for women. It’s never a big change in men that is required to achieve success with women. Instead it’s the little things that they include in their interactions with women.

Why is dominance important? Because women have a need to only feel romantic feelings for someone who they cannot control and someone who they can give themselves to. By “give themselves” I mean physically and emotionally. Sure, a woman might sleep with a guy out of revenge, jealousy etc...but the only way for her to have consensual sexual intercourse with a man is to feel like she is submissive.

The real trick is to make a woman feel submissive without having her feel less of a person. After all, women crave this feeling deep inside. A guy who is able to achieve this balance of feelings in a woman can seriously cause her to develop strong romantic interest in him.

Most women won’t be shy to admit that they want to be dominated in the bedroom as well. Even the most “in control” woman in the bedroom has an inner desire to be dominated in a passionate way.

I believe many have the impression that women still somehow need men in today’s society. Women have rights, women have the ability to earn a lot of money, women have the ability to survive on their own in a civilized society. Women do not need men for anything else than emotional and physical excitement.

I encourage everyone to start interacting with women with a subtle “I don’t give a shit” attitude without being a “jerk”.

Subtle shifts in a man’s thinking and behavior can fire off that deep inner attraction switch in women.

Fully agreed. For the last half year, my motto has been "I don't give a shit" when it comes to game and my success has become tenfold.

I am a nice guy. I am still a nice guy and that is the type of game I run. I still buy women presents, buy dinner, hold doors, etc. Sometimes gifts, but they give me gifts back because my attitude doesnt give them power through rejection.

If a woman says no, I really don't care. And at the end of the night, she says yes anyway.

I win

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Kudos bro. I discovered this aspect of attraction in the bedroom, and discovered that it was reciprocal. That is, I discovered that I WANTED to dominate her in the same way she WANTED to be dominated. I don't how many of you are familiar with "the look", but it is the sexiest, most incredible gift a woman can give you. It's when she looks into your eyes and says without words, "Have your way with me." It is the complete surrender of her will to you, and is the ultimate expression of TRUST.

- Classic*

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This is so true. Women don't want to be with a man who acts like a girl. They want a man in charge. Not a girl with a dick

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