Definitions of teasing:

To make fun of; mock playfully
To arouse hope, desire, or curiosity in without affording satisfaction

Alot of us don't really get the whole teasing thing, we end up insulting instead of what we actually mean or we over tease.

Alot of it could be to do with the level of teasing tolerence we have due to our friends, some groups give each other hell which is fine in that group but in another group the same person could be seen as a total asshole.

Most of this has to do with the words we choose, so I try to keep my teasing none verbal as much as possible, this way I'm reacting off (usually things I find funny) what she is saying or doing rather than actively looking for something to make fun of, then I can create some playful banter statements.

Thou mix and match, but be careful, don't insult or make fun of her looks, you can make funny observations about what shes wearing, again you have to be careful with this one but the best teasing is stuff that just happens naturally, if your actively looking for something to tease then thats where things tend to go wrong!

The main idea of teasing as a tactic in general is to make the other person feel less cooler than you for a second or two which inturn has them proving themselves (basicly qualification/investment) and remember teasing is only a small part of attraction, you do not need to be teasing every single thing she is saying, once or twice may be perfectly fine

So how to work this into conversation with out thinking about it

What ever the subject is:

Ask a question/Give an opinion - Listen - Give an opinion (or) Ask open ended questions

Giving your opinions can be teasing/things you find humourous

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heh teasing is my favourite thing to do. It's even funnier when you get guys coming back to you validating themselves to you over a joke!

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guys?

haha i dont really tease guys

but teasing ive found is a really good technique to keep the convesation fresh, as long as you can deliver the tease playfully
Also good for call-back stuff, over text,phone or day 2

-Stryde-

ha don't get me wrong I'm straight and all but you have to remember this game works on a mindset, not just women. If you project your self esteem/whatever over males and females then they are under your spell. It's a bit harder to find insecurities in males, at least the way you would go about it in women, but I do find it humorous when the tricks you pull on girls works just as well on guys

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A few other things I'd like to mention are teasing frames that are easy to remember and easy to pull off, remember its better to include her in the joke and not to single her out and repeatedly pick on her, it doesn't mean you have to go to the extreme just little spikes thrown in if shes outa line, testy or you just wana spice things up a little

I'm cooler than her - this is a no brainer, it just means picking out things she says or does that are funny and having a laugh about it, but again don't be an asshole, this is an attitude

They kinda bad not like other girls - ok, so you don't want to just start calling her smelly this is a situational one, best example I can give was in a porno (my friend saw lol) and the guy spat on her pussy when he was fucking her, she said "is that how you spit on you ex girl friend?" and the guy said "no, I didn't have to spit on her she was nice", needless to say the chick loved it

Shes hasn't been trained right - simple line, "obviously your last boyfriend did not spank you enough" credit Sinn, or something like "I pitty your boyfriends they must have had a hard time with you"

When you tease you want to come across like you're mocking sort of so laugh about it but try not to go over board and offend

Teasing is giving off the opposite impression to what you mean "I hate you" actually means "I like you"

I'm going to leave it here because I've written this in a rush so if anyone has any input please leave a comment because I'd love to hear views on this

I'll leave with this quickly, a few lines thanks to captain jack and a few others (if you stick to these kinda ideas you should be fine

"Oh my god! Alllllriiiight! Who brought their little sister to the bar?"
"Is she always like this? You can dress her up but you can't take her anywhere!"
"Oh geez. You WOULD say that."

even just saying "what" in disbelief while shaking your head but with a smile can be very good

Good one from hypnotica on his infield insider was, the girl was kinda misbehaving and he said "what was your name again" sounds like nothing but it says alot, it says basicly that she hasn't even made a tiny impact enough for him to even remember her name

And if you get a set or she says something you don't like that was kinda rude you always have the international face of (what a dick) as if to say "wow shes not a nice person and a bit of a dick" this isnt really teasing but if you get a bitchy girl that blows you out instantly or one thats just plain rude and you do this and walk off but later she sees you having fun with aload of other girls, its always good when you see her look over, and you know she feels like she fucked up

In some cases you may even get a heart felt sorry from her lol

hope to hear more ideas

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