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Hello, forums! My time here has mostly consisted of positive NLP posting + nutritional values and how they will effect your inner-game. Now I have a bit of a dilemma.

I have an ex-girlfriend, most would call a one-itis, I've been in many relationships before, so I know what I am looking for. I use(d) the game to get in-touch with my emotions and get myself out there to understand people and their reactions, and mostly how to seduce women.

As of recently, I applied my knowledge and just been myself, and my old one-itis, of which I never considered that she would have thought of me, realized that she never really stopped loving me. *insert more fluff*. Basically, we dated for an extended time about three years ago, and I'm not looking for a relationship with her yet, but we were conversing via telephone this night, and she said to me:
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You know, I'm honestly not really a sexual person. - This of which I noticed throughout our relationship. She's very conservative about her body, but not prude. If we do escalate to a relationship one day, I would like to know any tips on bringing out her sexuality. Opening herself up to being a more sexual being. I was curious if anybody has any insight on this. I know it's not a shit test because I've seen throughout her other relationships, including ours, she never had an extreme yearning to be sexual. Although she would, and would enjoy it. (That or a real good faker 'eh? ). I basically want to know if this is normal in some people, or something could be triggered to bring her into a more pensive mood on the topic.
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Note: I wasn't sure whether or not this should go under 'Relationships' or 'Sticking Points', it's not with every girl, so it's not really a sticking point, and we're not dating, and I've seen many threads get deleted out of relationships for not being a real relationship, so I figured this was more on the topic of Direct/Natural Game.
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I'm not getting her to open up more sexually out of the relationship, I know some girls do not wish to be sexual because they are not in a solid-name relationship, but if a relationship came around, I know she will act the way as stated above. And There is absolutely nothing wrong with it. - I was only curious if there were some way that some of you use to open people up to the concept/make them enjoy the idea more.
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Regardless, perhaps it is a bit difficult to explain, for I have not slept in 1.5~ days. If you have any questions please let me know, I appreciate any help!

Much love,
-C

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I think what you're describing is common. On average a woman is satisfied with less sex than a man. I'm sure there's some evolutionary reason, blah blah. So. What you're saying is, you will be satisfied with this girl if she changes her sexual appetite. The way to do it is probably to make yourself more sexual and more appealing to her. Maybe style your hair differently every week and grow facial hair and shave. Be more masculine when she's off her period and more femmie when she's near it.

But realistically, you have to assume she is never going to change and you have to accept her the way she is. Some girls really aren't sexual and can go a month or more without, even when in a relationship. Assuming you can't change her (this is always the smart assumption), would you be able/willing to put up with her lack of a sex drive? Are you willing to take her as is? This is the question you should be asking.

Thank you for your post! I appreciate the time you took to help me in my dilemma. Of course I am fully acceptable to her lack of sex drive, I was curious as to if this were just her, or it was common in women, also if it was something that I could do to expand her emotions on it. Thank you for the tips again!

-C

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Please check out my "Importance of Nutrition" thread in the Health & Fitness section!