Hey guys i didnt know where this went so i also posted this in Online Sarging:

Hey guys, here is the briefing:
I met her at uni in like october, we've always small talked. I'm an international student so i go to my own country every summer. I finally decided to get her on msn so we could talk more in like early july.

I drop a line every 5-6 days
Conversations always go well. I'm just annoyed because she never initiates conversation. I have, 3 times already dropped comments and signed off(blocked her temporarily lol) because i realised that it really gets her and she has to shout me as soon as i log back on.

What i have done up to this point to make her think about me for a bit and make her shout me is:

1 - You know u seem alot different to how i thought u were when i first met u, anyways i gtg ttyl *gone*.

2:-
Me - you know what i like about u?
HB8 - what?
Me - *gone*

3:-
Me - You know i really enjoy chatting with u, we really seem to get along
Too bad tho
I would be attracted to u
HB8 - would be?
Me - yup, gtg cya

The followup to the third one i just voiced my concerns that i felt she was playing the innocent act with me... she also called me out on that tactic, but i denied lol

We also agreed to "hang out" when i got back, i never said date or anything like that.

Last night she said that it bothered her i didnt believe her that she was not a player.

ALRIGHT NOW TO MY CONCERNS
SHE NEVER INITIATES CONVO UNLESS I SET IT UP... THIS IS A RED FLAG IN MY HEAD

I am extremely worried about falling into the friendzone...

Should i not talk to her until i see her again? i mean i always thought it was alpha to talk to a girl when u wanted...

should i drop the bullshit and tell her im interested, no bullshit? or should i keep her guessing...

She really has opened up to me and told me that shes been with less than 5 guys...
My good friend who bounces at her favourite bar told me he sees her leave with guys alot and shes a night rider, but he exaggerates... so i dunno who to believe. I dont care about her past, i just dont want to deal with a player... i want a relationship...

Me being....Direct.... i feel like i should just be honest and if she doesnt like it oh well... but my game lasts at one nighters, i have no idea what to do for relationships.

any tips guys?

bro you gotta keep the link alive. tell her a funny story that happened in your day. then when she replies say a less exited text, but you need to re-spark that connection or else she wont remember how exciting you are.

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She wants you to initiate the conversation,that's what women do,it shows they've got a bit of nerve.If she initiated the conversation all the time that is an almost definite indiciator that she's put you in the friend zone,but she hasn't,not unless you mess something up.

You're doing well,very well.

Yeah man, I agree with everyone else that you're doing good work there. Just remember that this is all just groundwork you're laying before you actually see her. No matter what happens in MSN, she'll definitely be giving you a more serious evaluation when you see her for real, one that'll be based on a lot more factors that how much fun you guys had online. The way things are going you're obviously going to get that chance. I'm not saying running some good game over MSN or text or whatever isn't a great way to help speed things along, I'm just saying it's not going to be the thing that makes or breaks this.

Breaking the rules again will get you banned.