Frame game:

I was afraid to write this article but it is time to throw some ideas out here.
As we know when we open a set we start off with comfort/rapport , we expect the best well behaved things from people.

As we share common interests and so in it is time for them to invest in us, thus we break rapport and so on.

Now in some special cases we will face people who have problem communicating rapport with us back this could be to many reasons:

1-They could be having a lousy day/night --- We ask them about that.
2-They could be busy (if we are meeting them during the day)
3-They could be snitchers/pretentous (People who live in UAE and acting like assholes because they are not staying here for long they act flashy etc...)
4-They could be people who are looking for a major ego boost , due to the fact that they are not confident "normal" thus they have to prove to themselves they are special by putting other people down and making themselves look confident. Lets call them fakers
5-They could be people with not good enough social skills --- In this case it is best to bring them out in the open and tell them that being an introvert is ok.

Now we can see in the following point that in no way am I blaming you (the reader) here , if you have accomplished what makes your value and know that your a socialable person and good person then you dont have to worry about your own actions.

When we meet people and you open with positive rapport building , it is important to either help them out or break their frame entirely.

One of the best way to break someones frame is to 'put them in a box'

This is when you classify everything they are doing in action or in words and simply throw it back at them in order to get them more emotional reactive than you (angry/pissed off/shouting) , so you basically amplify the negativity in them
. For example I had an employee who came to my office and I realised he was being kind of weird so I told him to :
1-stress down
2-Lower his voice
3-Have a seat
4-Breath slower
5-Not to take out his anger on the table and bang it.

As you can see in the previous example im escalating the negative reaction coming out of him slowly , the slower you escalate his reaction the more negative state he will fall into.

Another example , I talked to a girl who was acting very nose up high, so I started throwing it at her:
1-She made up her hair so she is bossy
2-She is fidgetting with the glass which makes her nervous
3-She is not comfortable talking with people

Im escalating the state she is in.

Now remember as far as this goes you can amplify the positive state in a person as well , although you are controling someones frame but the outcome is totally different you build positivity in them.
For example telling a friend:

1-He is a good person
2-He knows how to make you feel comfortable
3-He is educated and in touch with himself unlike other people

This amplifies positivity.

Now the point of doing of all of this is to show the other person that your a person of value and that in order for them to correlate with you they have to invest in you.

One of the best lines that define this entire percetion is this "You should lower your standards just like I lowered mine"

The inner perception of yourself will create an innner reality thus everything that comes out of your mouth will be built based upon that reality , and hey who doesnt want a guy who has a great outlook and positive reality about himself and anyone who associates with him.

A great tool to consider when talking to good looking women is to talk to them like normal basic people, even if you were there to pick them up in intention dont pick them up in words and treat them as normal as you are , not above not below , this is a very important rule of thumb.

So here is an example, you find a very gorgous looking women standing somewhere in the venue , its time to meet her and see what is she truely like. Your going to talk to her and build like everyone else , if she is wearing something nice complement her , but be sure to tell her your not here to pick her up because she HAS NOT QUALIFIED HERSELF YET.
"I only pickup hot girls" is the best frame I have seen , it perceives that she is not hot yet as she may think she is, you can add to her "I only pickup girls with really great hair / or less makeup /or who look skanky"

and then you continue, I am here only to talk and find out who you are but there is no way on earth Im going to escalate things with you because you have not invested in me yet.

Conclusion: Be aware of your own value to yourself , are you doing something your comfortable in doing are you sticking to your own beleif and value. If yes then continue meeting people and always be aware of investment.