Alright so this is my deal, and i'm trying to figure out the best way to fix /manipulate it. Im a gemini, and i fit the gemini profile perfectly, where some nights i go out with a strong frame, extrovert alpha the scene, and am the social center of the party. Then some nights I just have no mojo. Im not vibing it, sit back, never take center, and get out alpha-ed everywhere. I actually had that type of night last night and ended up having a natural snatch a girl i was gaming straight out from under my nose like a real AFC.
So my question is this a framing issue or is there a way to still be alpha on the off nights but more of an introverted alpha as i've heard about?
Whats the best thing to do, really

Thanks for any advice

Hey man I think you are completely over analyzing this.

First off, what do you want from women right now? Are you trying to just fuck a whole bunch of girls or are you trying to get a girl friend? Because depending on that answer will determine the type of approach you need to do.

Message me more about you concerns.

Astrology is a non-science.

If you think of yourself as a gemini, not only are you lacking in the intelligence or education to question astrology sufficiently to understand that it is nonsense but you will also find yourself exhibiting gemini behaviours (where attention goes your energy flows).

More practically, don't worry so much about being alpha. On the nights when you are chilling back, are you happy to be so or do you really want to be bouncing about as you do on your other nights?

If you want that energy everytime you go out, sometimes you'll have to take steps to achieve that state.

Basically just do something extreme enough that all notions of pride and shame are destroyed (like seranading your friend in your loudest singing voice), after which you will be free of the nothings that restrict you (temporarily).

A more long-term solution is to look at everything in your life and start changing things till you are happy and balanced, then your awesome state will be more of a constant.

Whichever, sometimes you should just allow yourself to be in different states. Sometimes you will be exhausted, stressed, have things on your mind that it would be wrong to try and override.

Life, your emotional state, is not a flat-line and nor would you want it to be.


Peace,

kowalski

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