I'm talking to this girl, and she tells me she is a lesbian (I know she isn't serious). How should I react on the outside to this, and what should I think on the inside?

Cool, so we both are gay. We should hang out sometimes !

or

I like lesbians, but dont know many. Tell me more .

or

I believe you... Next to all those wack men I guess i would be lezb too if i was you. Tnx God there is still some cool guys too (wink here).

etc.

It's a shit test. Train yourself and you will notice they have those shit tests just to see if you will give up or take it cool and just continue conversation like it didnt affect you.

Genius !
This made me laugh so good.This'll be the one I'll use !

I was actually rejected with "i'm a lesbo" once, i froze up and left...damn i should have said that..A+

Personally I don't make any surprised or shocked reactions, I would just normally say "ah thats kool, i actually respect lesbians, we should go hit on girls someday, im michael btw." it works for me

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It definitely is a shit test. Deflect it by piquing her curiosity more, somehow. The suggestions above are very good... I personally like the "great, let's go pick up girls together".. or "no way, I'm gay too, now I finally have a gay female friend!

The "let's go pick up girls together" is perfect because it seems like you are joking about the PU, and it gives you a routine that involves her with meeting other girls.

Guys, this is the natural game forum. NATURAL.

The whole point is you don't need to be told how to react and how to think. You react in whatever way you want. No single reaction is right or wrong.

Read Vin Di Carlo's "The Attraction Code" and this ebook:

http://www.seductioncommunitysucks.com/

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forgot it was natural game section...... but..... you have to handle shit tests properly, if you are naturally bad at them then you gotta change that.

See this is the point, you CANT be naturally bad at them. If your relaxed and focused totally outwards on enjoying yourself and having fun then whatever response you give will be fine. If your playful and go "Oh! sorry to bother you then" and turn to go it's still going to be handled because your relaxed and not taking anything too seriously.

Wrapper, I think the fact your asking us what to actually THINK is a sign of some deeper seated issues of self confidence, no one can tell you how to think. Read the material I recommended (PM me if you want to "borrow" it) and things might be a bit clearer.

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@Hobbit

My point wasn't that he could suddenly jump to that phase of being completely cool, calm and confident; but that us telling him what to do and think doesn't help him. He can cooly respond with: "Great, lets go pick up chicks together" and then as soon as another roadblock pops up he'll be straight back on the forums wondering what was the "perfect" thing to say to that "shit test" was.

You can't come up with a response for every single scenario, everyone has the ability to handle anything that comes their way, and it wasn't about right or wrong either, that was the whole point, there is no right and wrong. Whether he choked or not he was doing the best he could do at that point in time, so he doesn't have anything to worry about. What I was trying to get across was that he shouldn't be asking for ideas on how he should respond and think, but more on what he can do to free up his own mind so he can respond and think for himself.

Hence the reading material.

And if he would like one liners for responses to "shit tests" (which is fine, lots of people do very well with canned game) then the natural forum probably isn't the right place for it.

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Fair enough, point taken.

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very good points scratch, thanks for giving me a different perspective

Your welcome, don't forget to PM me for the book.

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