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"WARNING: Shocking Discovery Shows That Confidence IS NOT A Solution To Your Dating Problems And Can Actually Decrease Your
Game!"

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Saying confidence can decrease your game is like saying boiling a kettle is detrimental to your coffee making abilities.

This man is a WUM. Pay no attention

He must be a 'multi-frustrated chumps' for a long time


BTW, what is "WUM"? can u show me the definition?

What You’ll Discover Inside…
 Why TOO MUCH Confidence Can Hinder Your Game Instead of
Increasing it! And it’s so obvious yet almost NO ONE thinks about it!
 The Five Super Easy Steps To Convey Confidence Without Looking Like
A Fake Or A Try Hard! If your level of confidence doesn’t actually “match”
how you are… you’ll look far worse than an AFC!

Part One: Why TOO MUCH Confidence Can Hinder Your
Game
Look, let’s be honest with one another here.
Do you REALLY think that confidence can hinder your game? It sounds a bit kinda
crazy right? Especially since all those pickup gurus seem to wrap everything
around it.
I mean let’s face it, we all know that confidence is needed to attract women. No
argument there. But what I’m going to be discussing here will have those dating
gurus (and “semi-pros” in the field) jumping over crowds just to try and shut me
up.
I can already hear them shouting, “DON’T LISTEN TO THIS GUY! Confidence is
everything! Without confidence there’s no means to life! Yada Yada Yada!”
Ok - maybe not so much the last sentence but you get my point.
You see, it seems like EVERYONE and their momma is talking about confidence
in the pickup society. Nothing new here, that’s been around for years.
…But the problem I have is they all make confidence seem like it’s just a magic
pill that you take and POOF! Just like magic you become a mPUA!
Man I wish it was that easy.
So let me bring it down to a more REALISTIC level… A.K.A the level they
really don’t want you to know…
Confidence is really just a pre-requisite to all the other stuff that comes next. You
know – approaching, attraction, conversation and rapport, getting the number,
closing, and a hundred other things.
But in reality - It’s not even a beginning to anything; it’s more of a prologue to
pickup. It’s your foundation.
But, here’s the real kicker – and it’s so obvious yet almost NO ONE notices it…

IF YOUR CONFIDENCE IS NOT CONGRUENT WITH WHO YOU
ARE FROM THE VERY BEGINNING, THE REST OF YOUR GAME
WILL FAIL AND BE DOOMED! NO MATTER HOW MANY SOCALLED
“TRICKS” YOU LEARN!
Pay attention now, I’m dead serious here.
Just getting this part right will make all the difference in your game. And those
who actually notice what they’re doing wrong and know how to make the correct
changes will be light years ahead of everyone else.
This is the kind of stuff that those pesky dating gurus don’t teach you, and they’re
going to hate me for this but it’s about time someone told you the cold hard facts.
First, let me tell you what Confidence IS NOT.
- Confidence is NOT about what new kind of tricks you can learn to attract a
woman.
- Confidence is NOT having a pocket full of “what to say” scribbled down on
a piece of wrinkled notebook paper.
- Confidence is NOT demonstrating higher value. (Why would you
DEMONSTRATE higher value when you should be ALREADY OF HIGH
VALUE)
- Confidence is NOT telling everyone in the world how confident you are (in
fact this is extremely insecure)
- Confidence is NOT being outcome dependent
- Confidence is NOT listening to music, getting tipsy, getting high, jumping
over fences so you can jazz yourself up to talk to girls.
- Confidence is NOT asking for a female’s opinion on something you could
care less about just so you can try to talk to her.
- Confidence is NOT worrying about when to call a girl because you’re afraid
she might see you as needy.

Ok, this almost goes against everything that pickup is trying to teach you, with the
exception of a few. You might have noticed that you may be guilty of doing one or
more of these but that’s fine.
It’s not your fault, and this is the kind of stuff that’s been swarming the forums,
books and whatnot programming you on HOW TO ACT to be confident.
Confidence is not something you do, it’s something you are. Remember – being
not doing, being not doing!
Now we know there’s a classic borderline that’s split between confidence and
cockiness.
But there’s also a split between Genuine Confidence and Programmed Confidence.
“WHaaaaaAAaaaTTT?????”
Allow me to explain…
Genuine Confidence is what you are without even thinking twice about it. You’re
in the zone – ALL THE TIME, no matter what, no matter where.
Nothing shakes you. You move like water and can adapt and overcome the craziest
situations. All this WITHOUT thinking to yourself, “BE CONFIDENT, BE
CONFIDENT, BE CONFIDENT. Remember steps #5, 23 and lean back and ask
her opinion, etc” – You get my point.
In other words, you walk, talk, act, convey, and exude that YOU’RE THE MAN.
It’s become second nature to you and women notice, pickup and eat this up like
you’re the last piece of chocolate on Earth.
You’re a NATURAL. Powerful stuff there.

Now, Programmed Confidence is like the evil twin brother of Genuine Confidence.
It’s created when you CONSCIOUSLY have CONFIDENCE.
Notice the keyword here: CONSCIOUSLY.
Conscious confidence is when you’re in any given situation and you’re constantly
thinking, “Ok, I gotta be confident right now so do this, this and that, remember
not to act needy, remember rules #2, 51, 11 and 89. Stand upright, talk like this,
blah blah blah”
That’s consciously being confident. The uncool way of doing things and also the
very LEAST EFFECTIVE.
NOW WHAT’S SO BAD ABOUT THIS?
Consciously being confident directs your focus and attention away from vibing and
naturally interacting in your current situation. It’s like trying to drive and text
message one of your girls at the same time.
You and I know that it’s IMPOSSIBLE for you to be 100% focused on driving
when you’re trying to text at the same time! – Unless you’re a wizard and can do
magical spells, then maybe…
The same goes for this. The fact is if you’re not laser-focused on your situation and
you’re constantly “fishing” for what to say or do next it becomes choppy,
incongruent and can get real ugly, real fast.
Conscious thinking of what to do next isn't natural, and not free-flowing.
I know because it’s happened to me, and truthfully, not only does it make me
FEEL FAKE, I don’t even feel like ME when I do that, know what I’m saying?
I want to feel cool, natural, and flowing in my interactions - like it’s a nice walk in
the park. Not like a robot that’s gotta remember steps 5 to 1,559 because I’m
talking to a HB9 at a bar.
But here’s where it gets a bit startling. You see…

THAT’S NOT THE WORST OF IT!
You’d think feeling fake was enough to kill your game in the long-run because of
consistently being incongruent… but it’s not.
NOT EVEN CLOSE.
Here’s the real nasty part, the ultimate game killer…
When you’re in this little loop, and you’re consistent with taking the Programmed
Confidence role, you begin to engrave a set of habits into your cranium.
These habits are then subconsciously set as you progress…
….BUT they’re bad mother F’in habits, not the good kinds that we’re trying to
achieve.
Then… without realizing, you become a SLAVE to these techniques, lines, rules,
theory and all this other so-called wisdom.
YOU’RE NOW POWERLESS WITHOUT THESE!!!
Meaning – you start to depend on these and believe that without all the latest mack
daddy pimp playa lines and wisdom, you’re gonna feel like you’re not GOOD
enough.
You catch my drift?
And when you start to think you’re not good enough, you go searching left and
right for the next hottest lines, tricks and whatnot.

Then when you finally get your hands on them, you’re satisfied briefly… but then
it happens again, the loop starts over and you’re in the cycle…. AGAIN! Looking
for more lines, more tricks, more so-called “techniques”
Helpful Hint: Don’t let your “brief success” emotions from Programmed
Confidence drive your thinking that this is the genuine way to be confident.
BECAUSE IT’S NOT!
Go back and read that again if you have to, I want you to really think about this
and give it time to marinate.
I’ve seen this happen so many times, yet hardly anyone ever talks about it. That’s
why I’m addressing this right here, right now.

BUT WAIT A MINUTE…
All is not lost.
If you’ve found yourself guilty of this you have no reason to panic. Like I said,
I’ve done it before and I know many guys are in the same situation.
It’s NOT your fault.
And here’s the good news… I’m going to show you, step-by-step, exactly how to
convey confidence that is completely congruent to YOU! Not your friends, not
your younger brother, not those dating gurus…but YOU!
And here’s the best part, not only will this help you become genuinely confident,
you can take what you learn today and apply it immediately.
As in, right now.
This is, after all, your foundation to pickup.
Just like anything else, if you have a weak foundation, you’re eventually going to
crumble. And you don’t want to crumble now do you? Good.
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So let’s get to it….

Part Two: The Five Super Easy Steps To Convey
Confidence Without Looking Like A Fake Or A Try hard!
You may have heard of the term, “Fake it till you make it.”
Well I say, Screw that.
I’m a strong believer that you shouldn’t FAKE yourself to MAKE yourself. That
doesn’t even make any sense. In fact, that’s where a lot of aspiring PUAs go
wrong.
In order to achieve the confidence you desire, you need to stop taking stuff from
outside sources, and starting pulling it from within because you already have all
the answers you’re looking for.
Here’s what I want you to do:
1.) You Are What You Think So ALWAYS Think Positive – Sounds simple
doesn’t it? If you’re not already doing this I can guarantee you that this is the
number 1 reason why you’re not as confident as you’d like to be.
When I say to ALWAYS think positive, I mean exactly that. ALWAYS. It
doesn’t matter what situation that you’re in.
A good example is if you approached a woman and she wasn’t interested.
Here are two different lines of thinking…
Negative Thinking: “Ah that sucks, why did I even bother? She’s probably
laughing at me with her friends right now. I’m such a loser, this pickup thing
isn’t for me.”
Positive Thinking: “Oh well that’s too bad for her. She would have loved to
see how interesting I was. Well! That’s not going to ruin my night! Let’s see
what other beautiful women are here who would LOVE to meet me?!”
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Now, ask yourself this, what line of thinking would a genuine confident
person be using?
Thinking positive in any situation is easy. Don’t make it hard on yourself.
We as humans ALL have the ability to be confident in any situation. It’s
all this social conditioning and bullshit hardwiring that you see on TV,
magazines, movies, etc that makes us think differently about it.
All you have to do is believe it yourself. YOU DO AND BECOME, that’s
it.
An exercise that will help you illustrate this is to think of the worst possible
situation that you can see yourself in pickup and picture how you can think
positively in those situations.
(IE: Saying to yourself, “Bad things happen all the time, and it’s all about
how you deal with it… so let’s see what I can do about this…what did I
learn from this?”)
Then, you simply condition yourself to EMBODY your positive thinking.
You’re not faking it because everybody thinks positive, but most people
only do it in positive situations.
But guess what? You’re not going to be like that. You’re gonna condition
your mind to always think positively in the good AND bad situations, and by
doing this you’ll take away possibly the biggest sticking point in your game.
A strong and confident mind will always see every situation as a positive in
a different light.
2.) Jump Outside Your Comfort Zone Box! – And I don’t mean just keep
approaching girls. I mean get out of your comfort zone about everything in
general.
Remember what I said about Genuine Confident guys? How they’re able to
adapt and overcome the craziest situations? This is how they do it.
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They do one thing that sets them apart from 99% of guys out there – they are
willing to get out of their comfort zone and challenge themselves to new
heights and forsaken territory.
So, get out of your comfort zone! In order to succeed to pickup, you need the
ability to be flexible.
If you’re only good in bars, you’re limiting yourself. If you’re only good at
bookstores, you’re limiting yourself. If you’re only able to approach blondes,
you’re limiting yourself. If you’re only good at conversation when you’re
drunk, you’re limiting yourself. If you can only talk to drunk girls, you’re
limiting yourself.
The ability to be flexible means that you’re confident enough to try new
things...
And when you do this, you widen your range of potential. You can’t expect
to succeed if you’re not constantly challenging yourself. No one limits you
but yourself.
So start off small and try new things. Whether it be going to K-Mart instead
of Wal-Mart, going to bed later or earlier, going to the gym 3 times a week
instead of never. Say “Hi” to five girls a day instead of never, etc.
I urge you to release your daily habits and think different, be different. Don’t
try to “fit-in” with society, let society fit-in with you.
Throw some variety in your life. No one likes a dull person anyway. In my
experience, different is better. Got it? Good. Let’s move on.

3.) Stop Giving A Damn About What People Think! – Aw man, this one is
HUGE. This is one of the biggest barriers that manipulates guys to think that
what they did, said, whatever is “uncool” or “unapproved”
Do exactly as the bold caption says. STOP GIVING A DAMN ABOUT
WHAT PEOPLE THINK! Ok!?

Look, when you’re out and about going to bars, clubs, whatever you’re out
to HAVE FUN. Did you sit at home and say, “Ok, let’s go to the bars and
let’s see what everyone thinks of me.”
Hell no you didn’t.
So WHY do it? Don’t limit yourself.
Example: “They didn’t laugh when I did this so this must be the wrong
thing to do. I’m not doing it now.”
Screw that dude.
Your game is a 10 out of 10 every time, ALL THE TIME. So stop
wondering if what you did was “the right thing to do” or if it was “okay to
say”
That’s what you call approval-seeking. You don’t need approval from
anybody because you’ve already approved YOURSELF.
THIS IS THE MINDSET THAT YOU NEED TO BE IN!
And this is actually easy to do, just like the other steps that I’ve already
shown you. This is something that you can make a decision to commit
TODAY, and starting doing TODAY.
Remember, there’s no secret tricks to this. You just gotta stop thinking about
it and do it.
Also, when you don’t give a damn, that doesn’t mean you have to be an
asshole either. If you’re not naturally an asshole, don’t be an asshole. You’re
bettering yourself by combining this information to be congruent to who you
are – this is important.