Hey guys,
thought it would be best for a quick intro. I have been studying game and lurking on the forum now for around 3months. I know everyone say it - but this has really improved so many areas of my life.
Now although I think im not attractive, i must have something going for me as I have been asked out by two HB9's, I know Im good in the sack but was never able to approach girls( I actually a GAD, so its was never just AA). Now question time.
I love natural game and would never do anythign else (may canned openers). I have read and re read gamblers book manys times and think I have hit a sticking point with my natural game.
I started an inccoent conversation with a HB9(possibly ten!!) on POF, exchanged MSN but never go the chance to talk. So I email a few weeks later asking how she is, we have a couple of exchanges and she just sends me her number (so I can assume interest). we exhange photos and she likes what she see (so I can assume attraction) We exchange texts for a couple of days -have a "date" waiting to be arranged as shes not back in town for a week. No we dont talk for a day or so. I want to send her a text to brighten up her day. But dont really know what to say.

Can someone help, I dont really like any of the text game ideas like stop . . .
congratualtions . . .
What do I send??

Cheers guys (sorry for the long post)

PS. To all those lurkers out there - please just jump in with both feet and study as you go along, you will never look back!

Hey bro..

Firstly! No need to apologise about the long post.. cause my post is way bigger

Secondly! I agree with you about the text game ideas, i dont really like them either.. They seem so un-natural and in this part of the forum we're really trying to concentrate on being natural

So yeah, the whole idea of being natural is to find out what your personality is like and what things you say suit your own style.

Personally, I dont really think it's a good idea to tell you exactly what to say cause i might have a different personality type and other guys on here will probably give you something that relates to them and their own personality. So unless you have the same sort of personality as someone else who replies then i dont really think things will appeal to you..

And in saying this I really highly recommend you think about what sort of personality you have, and try and figure out something to say yourself..
Consider things like what you've already said to this girl, personal jokes you may have with her.. try and get something that is applicable to your person relationship with her..

By doing this you're really becoming self aware of your own personality and coming up with your own ORIGINAL material ..

You can even post the things on here and we can give you some opinions on it.. But my point is that the whole idea is to develop your own style and personality .. or else you're kind of just stealing stuff from other people hence still using canned material! Give it a go!


But in saying all of that here's something i would say but may not suit you..

I like to tease girls about being addicted to me, so i would probably say something like .. "hey you big dork/loser/poobumweehead.. Just thought i'd hit you with your daily dosage of tnvirjuana.. I know you're an addict.. just trying to look out for ya "

As i said this style may not suit you cause you've got a diff personality and what not.. but it gets me responses

BTW.. Theoretically, what you say shouldn't really matter cause if you've played your cards right, even a simple text saying 'hey, how are ya' would brighten her day

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awesome, thanks for the reply. I have it sorted. I sent a little neg at my self.

Awesome thanks for the reply. I sent her a little neg and got a bite