excuse me if this is the wrong place to post.)

i have noticed i get approached alot by girls asking for a light/ciggarette. on two recent different occasions one of my mates closed the girl that openned him like this.
or is this just a normal request for a light etc.
Can this be taken as a clear IOI ??

If so im looking for the most natural way to respond. i usually just say yes/no.
Not necessarily looking for routines here but more how a natural wud react.
Im definatly interested in seeing some of your guys routine respones or ways to handle this.
Advice will be well appreciated. Thx.

thx for ur response. but im still looking for good response etc when approached. v often in a super loud club. sometimes not and dont know good response..

i say this always (btw i hate smokers): " WOW, couldnt you come up with a more original pick up line then that"

Whenever girls ask me for cigarettes in bars and clubs, I tell them it will cost them a kiss. Works surprisingly well.

This summer it happend to me. I noticed some girls were looking at me, they sat on the stairs in front of me and asked me for a light. I didn't have any, then she told me 'Actually I just wanted to talk to you'. Asking the girl if she doesn't have any better pick up line is a nice one. Aftter that you can have a fun conversation about openers.

If you actually do have a lighter/cigarette:

HB: "Do you have a lighter/cigarette?"
You: (*give her a serious intense look) "Jesus, just quit the damn smoking and stop being annoying. Okay...?".
HB: "WTF?OMG?JERK!"
You: "Haha! You should have seen the look on your face, priceless. Here you go, little girl" (*hand her over the lighter/cigarette)

If you don't have a lighter/cigarette:

HB: "Do you have a lighter/cigarette?"
You: "Sure!" (*Think for a second, like you just made up your mind. Don't even grab for your pockets) "Oooh! uhm... Uuhhh, I just got robbed a few minutes ago, yeah! I remember now... it was bad, blood all over the place, screaming, you know. (*make it sound ridiculous, like you're finding excuses not to give it to her.)

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I'd just give a basic yes or no answer...

Oh, I absolutely love these kinds of situations, this is where my natural game is at its best.

Tips:

1) If she needs a lighter, comment on her cigarette-brand (prefferably a minor neg).

2) If she needs a smoke, I usually say something in the style of: "Okay, but you have to take good care of this one, it's the finest brand out there, not like the kinds of cigs you usually smoke!" <--- SOMETHING like that..

3) If you're feeling cocky, say something like: "Okay, but you're gonna owe me one!".
From here, you can just lay low and let her go, and then when you see her a couple of days later (if you go to the same school or something), you go to her and say "Hey! I could use a smoke right about now, and you owe me one remember?" - BAM! Natural way of making conversation right there!

Or if you are feeling particular in the mood for picking up, you say the "you owe me"-thing, and start up a quick conversation with her, and go something like "Well, I'm gonna need your number so I can collect my smoke".

Hope it helped you out.

Her: "Hey, do you have a cigarette?"
You: "Hey, do you have the 4th season of Sex and the City on DVD?"

Her: "Hey, can I bum a cigarette?"
You: "YOU'RE a cigarette."

Her: "Hey, can I get a cigarette off of you?"
You: "Your mom's a cigarette."

Her: "Do you know where I can find a cigarette?"
You: "What's a cigarette?"

The first one's OK, at best, but the other responses are just childish.

Back to the white board.

Oh dear god, this is bad..

I..

Um...The resulting look on her face would be a success story in its own right.


Defenitely trying it.

I usually say yes here.....Then take her hand....and say we need to talk, and lead her somehwere else...

this is what I do everytime and is very effective:

her: do you have a cigarette?
me: sure (i take the cigarette out), it's 5 dollars.