'm 19 and pretty new to this, but anyways i was in the club the other night and this hot ass blonde girl stood next to me, so i thought "rrrr fuck it i might as well try" i noticed she reacted well to my humour by taking the piss out of some nutter on the dancefloor,

but anyways i guess from the last couple of weeks out , ive learned that girls are useally warm and friendly when your talk to them and there not gonna bite your head some goes for people in general, yer you might get the odd rude person but hey as far as Im seeing it now I'm the ceo, hire and fire.

but anyways i know what blew it with the hot ass blonde, i retreated into my head, she was ready to be kissed, call it intuition or a feeling, but thats what made me retreat into my head, it must have been outside of my reailty for this hot ass girl to be standing with me enjoying what I'm saying

1)anyways i noticed something when i break eye contact with the girl I'm talking to, i retreat into my head , and also in clubs you have to break eye contact if you want to speak to them because the music is loud, do you have to have constant eye contact all the way through? i

I suppose i need to get to a stage where there is less words exhanged as possable noticed this from the guys that pull in clubs alot they just look go over dance, kiss,

any advice to stay with the conversation, outside my head, in the moment??
i can do this well for a while yet because i know i have to stay outside my head and its vital my mind fucks me over

o and also i think that you can pull it back after you retreat in your head, as long as you are present again, is this true or have you frucked it if you do this?? but i think i lost to the blonde becauise i said something stupid o well guess you learn .....

Anyway as you said you are new to this stuff and you don't get it from day one. If you have a routine, neg or opener in your head then go out make sure you atleast test it out. Once you tighten up those loose ends the only way you can go is up.

Think of it this way even if doesn't go as planed there are billions of other women.