just curious as to what you guys think

i would rather not give a shit and be outspoken even if it's against what other people in the room think.


any opinions?

Sorin, interesting question.

For me, knowledge speaks, wisdom listens.

Quiet and eloquent is what I am aiming for.

File

_________________
Whether you think you can, or whether you think you cant, you are right.
H. Ford

Usually I'm quiet and shy (due to the fact that I dont like many people)

BUT I have my spurts of being fearless and outspoken (because sometimes I dont give a fuck about others)

I used to be very quiet and stoic, and I found that that works great one-one but not so great in a group. I found a happy medium though. Now I talk as much as I want, no more no less; but I have also learned to enjoy talking rather than fear it. Also I learned how fun it is to be brutally honest and open with people. So basically my advice is explore what it's like on both ends of the spectrum, then find a happy medium. This way at least you will be flexible enough to adjust to the situation, regardless which end is better suited. I have friends who are always loud and "on" even when its inappropriate, and I also have friends who are too quiet even when people want to talk to them.

Be shapeless, formless, like water - Bruce Lee.

The world is full of shy, timid, meek men. I'd much rather be outspoken, but a situational balance between the two is always best.

~Antithesis