I've been telling a lot of people about this 'method' lately, and it's pretty well known, even outside of the community. I've just decided to give it a name.

Long story short: You treat her only as a friend, so that she's comfortable to be around you, all the while making her fall in love with you. At the very end, you 'fall in love with her too', and you become her boyfriend.. or just fuck.

Step 0: Attraction
Although girls come in all shapes and forms, they all have one thing in common: what kind of guys they're attracted to.
Attraction is not a choice, as told by David DeAngelo.
You must make yourself more attractive by fixing those small things like:
- general facial expression: shows freedom, power, and happiness. doesn't show stress, sadness, bad feelings.

- vocal tonality: deep, loud, solid, soothing (etc.)

- body language: confident, relaxed, nice posture

- alpha male: standing up for yourself, having standards, etc.

you've heard these soo much times i dont think it's necessary to state all of them.
also, all of this stuff should be done subconsciously, otherwise known as "done naturally". so it's really a matter of fixing your habits.


(Situational) Step 1: Social Value
Only if there is some sort of shield such as "in school two people may not socialize if they are not in the same social circle or are in the same class" or if it simply involves where the girl already has a big social circle of her own around her, then you MUST show social value.
So quickly befriend one of them if you already havent, preferably a cool attractive dude, and become buds. The girls will notice him, and you, and associate you two as similar, ATTRACTIVE. Social value just shows one thing: how friendly you are and how cool you are. So just be friendly to the guys and truly become their friends.

This step may be ignored in venues like bars, uptown, concerts, festivals, day-game venues, get the general idea?


Step 2: Being A Great Friend
Next comes being able to make others feel good and laugh.
This comes from having fun yourself!~! Focus on having fun and feeling good. Avoid the stress from 'needing to get chicks' or 'having to be an alpha'. just fuck all that for once and just let yourself go free. have fun, dont give a fuck about people who say stupid stuff or give negative vibes and enjoy yourself. eventually you'll become naturally calibrated so that your sense of humor will be at a certain point that anyone around you will laugh and have a good time. this may be a trait you already possess, Great =]
Others, just give it time. I used to be horrible, now i'm great!!
Just focus on three things:
- Being Obnoxious (being able to act silly and crazy focusing purely on making yourself laugh and have fun)
- Being Witty (being able to give a shit about what others say so that you'll have things to branch off of right away instead of having awkward pauses)
- Being Unpredictable (being able to make people never know what you're going to do next. ex: You: "I want some COOKIES." hb: "haha why??" You: "DONT QUESTION ME!!!!")

Always try to perceive your target as a close friend who happens to look very cute. Everyone has them ya know... Just purposely try to make your relationship not romantic and just flirty friends.

The best part about this is.. you can keep as many girls you want at this stage.. so that they'll be good and ready to move to the next phase whenever YOU want.
A lot of naturals have tons of girls at this level, and they only have 2-3 on step 3 at once.

Step 3: Kino -> Close
Eventually, she'll see you as a really cute and funny guy and she'll fall in love with you.
The IOIs will be hard to spot because she doesnt want to look bad for 'liking a best friend'. So as soon as YOU FEEL comfortable enough to kiss or anything like that, Go For It.

Enjoy!!!!
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Hmm. I get stuck at Step 1 a bit. But if i get past it, its easier. Good post.

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On Step 2. Are you sure Step 3 would be quite direct? We feel pretty comfortable at times (with this particular girl) just being together although she has a bf (who lives in a different country). What do you reckon? Should I go for the cuddle and kisses?

Ok this what AFC adam came up with as well. His ( C-R) + Q+SE = Close.

So its comfort minus rapport . So being playful and flirty. And i guess if u want to take the relationship to next level u qualify her and sexualy escalate...

Its Kino escalation that seperates u from friends zone and being a lover .

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Why would you want to do all of this?? it will take a long time...
Sraging is much quicker.
BTW I know a "friend" of mine who does it I really hate him; his hypocritical, he knows noting about the game, he steals girls from guys (like he knew I was hitting on her and he kind of fucked it up) before I was trying to game her I asked him if he wants her and he says "no" fucking hypocrite!
Anyway, he keeps girls in this stage forever I mean years! or months!

I think it would be much cooler to be a good friend and sarge for quicker results.
And if you want pivots or good female friends just make sure they are not HB6+ then you wouldn't want them anyway.

If you havent made her attracted to you, which is the very first step, you can't touch.
If however you know she wants to be more than a friend, then go for it. she's been waiting for a long time.

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Also to the newbie, it's hard not to follow these steps when doing pick up. it merely states the facts that happen before getting into a sexual relationship.

you can't f-close a girl until you guys have been physically comfortable with each other (step 3), you can be physically sexual if you're not already familiar with each other, and she won't be wanting to be sexual if you're not being sexually attractive (step 0).

it just states what really has to happen before the next step happens. think about sarging..

you approach a girl, build up attraction (step 0), if you need to then you show social value (step 1), and now she's your friend for a few hours (step 2), and then later on you escalate sexually and end up forming a sexual relationship (step 3).

Hope this helps!
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Precisely. That is the highlight of this post!! =]]

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