| We are Pick Up Artists, notice the artist part.
The dictionary definition of an artist : "a person whose creative work shows sensitivity and imagination"
So lets take the important wording here,
Creative work - The way you pick up a girl should never be scripted, maybe a baseline layed down that you can work with, but I never go out using others openers etc I always try and create my own. You cant be a pick up artist unless you do the creative part of it, the picking up. This is the creative medium par se, so a song, a painting, a book, a HB10 celeb/stripper...... the thing you would like to have at the end of the journey and what it is you intended to have produced after your whole composition is thrown together. This is the same thing as using openers, closers, dhv, c+f, negs etc.... they are all elements thats can be used in harmony with eachother to create a more distinctive piece of artwork.
Sensitivity - Every target is different and thus every approach should be different. The sensitivity comes into play when you decide and implement your approach. You need to make sure the game your bringing suits the intended target. If your in a grimey rock bar trying to score suicide dolls and such, chatting about your hip hop label isnt going to have any credance. You need to make sure the material you use and the approach you take is sensitive to its intended target. I wouldnt start spitting rich game at a girl in a JD Wetherspoons (cheap chain pub in uk) as much as I wouldnt sit in the Hilton Lobby bar and talk about my labouring job. If Im using DHV which I often dont need to, then I try to use DHV that goes with the tone of the environment
Imagination - This is the vital aspect, its ok to take ideas from the board and work them into your game, its fine to absorb lots of peoples stories and reports and look at their success. Its not ok to try and copy the style of another pick up artist. The reason we are PUA's is because we respect and more so develop our individualism so that we can be PUA's. The last thing we want is to find some other guy has been spitting the same game at a girl your targeting. Imagination goes a long way to showing the type of character you are. You cant be creative without having imagination, the vision to see something befores its created and then take steps to that final phase where the idea is fully realised.
Im starting to worry that people to turn to the community because of their inadequacies with women and see it being their answer. They learn a few lines, get a few numbers, get in a LTR then come back here in a year or 2 when they realise they need to learn more coz they game gone and changed the way its played. The game never changes, the rules have never been changed, you just put yourself on the ladder and see how u can climb. But once you fall of you gotta start all over again.
I dedicate my life to the causes of the PUA,
to liberate women into sexual beings without the stigmata of being easy,
to prove to the world you dont have to be the best looking guy to bed the best looking girls,
to date women I want, not the women that I can have
to push the boundaries of my mind body and soul to make me a more complete person,
to develop my inner game and build on my foundation of happiness and emotional stability.
to never tell another woman I love her while I really do not understand the meaning of love,
to help other men to be more of a sucess and help them acheive their potential,
to undo all the mental damage that has held me back due to years of peered conditioning.
to enhance my character and personality to adapt into conversation with absolutely anyonem
to provide honest advice to those who ask and to always speak from my heart
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