Sup guys,

I seem to be able to easily game girls that are just pretty faces, but when i try to game a girl i actually have feelings for, its like i accidentally throw all common sense about pick up out the window and fuck shit up.

The only way i've really been learning to stop is by trial and error, but by the time i learn then ive already ruined the relationship.

Any thoughts as to why its harder when you like them?

because your body is designed to fall in love and to reproduce, you don't wanna fail when you actually feel something for a girl, that's why you get tensed with the result that you're not thinking clear and relaxed and then you fuck up..

love is the the best thing that can happen to you and it's not a bad thing at all.. I see you're only 15 years old, so you starting with this on a really young age.. make sure you are doing this for the right reason! once you get older you'll be able to be more playful and resist the feeling of love.. but until then, you should enjoy the feeling of love and learn to respect women.. the more you love, the more you'll realise how to treat them right.. be respectful to them the rest of your life! become a gentleman..

talk to the girls a lot, have fun with them, learn about them.. because you are young, things might be even more easy to learn.. The more comfortable you get with the girls you like, the better you can resist any feelings for her and you'll be able to play your game and stay attractive for her..

Just make sure you're not turning in to a girl-heartbreaking bad boy, but into a high self esteem boy who knows the balance between kissing girls and how to handle them with respect..

peace

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buddy im 16 i have the same problem as you

i know it is hard because you dont want to fail with these girls but its important to not be all frendy

be funny and cheeky now and again just hang out but maybie try some funny innuendo and such

Hey buddy,

Exactly same problem here. Actually it's been a very long time, since 8 months ago, I've started to approach her. First 2 months are incredibly easy, I've no feelings for her, therefore I can pass every tests she gave me, she complimented me on how I understand women, etc. I might sound arrogant, but that's what I got.

Then since 2 months ago, I've started to deeply fall in love with her and started to get things more serious (text her more often, phone calls, etc.). I started to stop meeting new girls and focusing all of my energy, time and emotion just for her, which she returns a little, but not as much as mine. So starting from 3 weeks ago, things got changed seriously, she started to lose interest in me, because of the feeling I got, I don't want to mess things up and carefully pick every word that I say to her, which makes me needy and weird and clingy, which instantly kills the attraction or potential love she has for me.

Now, it's getting worse and I've decided to close her as friend and make her more of "long term project". It's just she's different from any other girls I"ve met, intelligent, funny,etc. I can't get her interest back by being super needy like this

Conclusion is that, it's harder because you're too emotionally invested on her, and u can't win this game if you're investing too much on her. If she's investing the same amount of investment to you, it's OK, but if not, kill it buddy. I'm still recovering from this failure. Good lessons for me.

Hope this helps

Best pal,
Steven

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"Grief is the price we pay for love"

I've written about this a lot on this site.

It's an inner game issue.
Your subconscious has beliefs about what you deserve in your life and what you do not. On some subconscious level you have a belief that you don't deserve to have an all around great girl. So when one comes into your life, your subconscious actively sabotages you so that you won't have more than you deserve.

This phenomenon is why people who win the lotto end up broke, men with beautiful wives cheat on them with ugly chicks, over night successes go bankrupt, and why most afcs end up alone even though they are around women all the time.

You've obviously accepted the belief that you deserve to sleep with hot women, now you have to accept the belief that you deserve to have all around great women in your life.

Great post...thank you