Thought I might share something with you that i tried on facebook recently and the results turned out pretty good.

some precursors to doing this however
1. People have to know you as not being to keen on steady relationships.
2. Your Social circle should garuntee at least a couple of responses
3. You have already talked to one or a few targets for at least 1 week

okay here's the deal if your facebook currently lists you as single and all of the precursors above are true...CHANGE IT TO BLANK.

why?

The little message feed on everyones facebook will show that you or no longer single.

So What?

Immiediatly you will begin to get responses on your status.
Some of them funny some of them serious but all conveying the message that you would never do this. Girls and guys alike will respond. After doing this i recieved a multitude of private messages, wall posts, texts, and even phone calls.

Still don't understand

Talk about a Social proof number one, number two you know your targets are recieving all these feeds and looking at whats up.

So what happens when u finally talk to your targets, mind you some of them won't even respond causee they don't know what to say that. When you call/text/write them a message act as if nothing has happened (which you might already know if your in the natural forum duh!) She will ask i saw your status...whos the lucky girl...whats up with that...your a player. Something like that. Here's the beautiful thing about it. You never said you had a girlfriend, or its complicated you simply changed it to blank, looking for friendship.

Your response to these spring up great conversations, you can tell her you met a girl who was creepin and wanted to change it, you can tell her that you just want to meet interesting people instead of dating, you can of course reverse it on her and say man your being nosy, but i'm just chilling out right now, hell you can say you were just doing a social experiment.

What i would reccommend is something that adds more mystery to your story, a vague answer. Thats what got her interested in the first place, shes thinking why after i met this guy did he change the status, did he really meet someone else? With a bunch of other questions going through her mind she's going crazy. Then you hit her with another vague answer and now shes intrigued.

After that you tell her that you want to meet up just to hang out, or tell her i got some things coming up, so (this day, time is perfect). She will jump on this because now your a time sensitive case, and she might miss out on something if she doesn't jump on the opportunity.

Anyway try it and see what happens! Blacksheep