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I think there was a video posted recently in the videos section of a Cajun and Tenmagnet video blog (I'll try and find another word for video) where they're asked this question.
They talk a bit about jaggering (look it up) but I think the main point is that you shouldn't focus on picking up girls when you go out if you wanna get into state. Just focus on having a lot of fun with your friends and the other people around you. Do fun, funny and even somewhat childish playful things. Be the guys that, to women (who as we all know are much more socially perceptive than men) are clearly having more fun than any other guys in the room and don't even seem to be looking for girls because they have fun anyway, regardless of whether they meet a girl or not.
If a guy is having fun and loving life without looking for a woman to raise his state then it shows to women that he is naturally like that and, if she interacts with him, HE'LL raise HER state.
Hope this helps
Stay classy
Absolutly fucking bang on the money with that one Punkyfish. The more you focus and revolve your night around sarging, the more of a 'big thing' it becomes. I think that this idea also links into the 3 second rule. Cause if you leave it too long it becomes an issue and the pressure is on, and more often than not you crack under pressure.
The reason why I emphasize it is becuase I had an experience this monday in which I was gonna open this HB 9.5 (It was at a party she organised, and she was by far the hottest there, and I wanted a challenge lol). But the more I thought about and focused on opening her, the more nervous I became. In the end I fucking bottled it which really pissed me off cause usually I dont have issues with approches, but oh well, you live, you learn. And just reading that now made me realise exactly what I did wrong, I thought about the 'what ifs' too much...
SO JUST ENJOY THE NIGHT AND WAIT FOR THE RIGHT MOMENT, THEN GRAB IT BY THE BALLS AND IT SHALL ALL FALL INTO PLACE!
