i like thsi girl, and im getting the feeling she likes me, but we havent seen eachoher that often and we met up today for coffee ( she brought her friend along too, which ive been told, is a sign of her being a bit nervous) ... and i was fucking nervous... i froze up sometimes... couldnt think of anytihng to say... or anytihng good to say.... i was ok in the begining but then then it all came crashing down.... hopefully, she doesnt tihnk im retarded..... fuck my life... well, not really.... theres no reason to be shy.. but its who i am and i need that part of me out.....

First of all, chill out bro. It's really not that serious. She is one out of millions of potentially datable women you will meet in your life. Calm down

Next time you are in a conversation and you feel the onset of the dreaded awkward silence, here's what you do: take a deep breath, relax, sit back and look her in the eyes as if you're waiting on her to say something. Nine times out of ten she'll feel like the silence is her fault and try to fill it, usually by asking a question beginning with "So ..."

I would take her bringing her friend as a sign that she's cautious and yes, perhaps a bit nervous. You should take it as an opportunity to win the friend over so the girl you're into never hears the end of how awesome you are

Your boy,
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I don't know how old you are, but I will make a guess and say you are at least 16 years old...

That's (at least) 16 years of experience on Earth! 16 FUCKING YEARS!!!

You have plenty to talk about, you just have to give yourself permission to do it.

I've discovered that when you run out of convenient things to talk about, it is actually OK to talk about any random thing that interests you. People are actually cool with it. I talk to girls about Mario Kart, the live-action Japanese Spider-Man show from the 70s that I saw on Youtube, taxes, Rod Stewart, Data from Star Trek, random mumbling, politics, WHATEVER!!!