Alright, this post is a collection of small FR's and a summary of my theory of animal attraction, a total necessity for a natural.

Let me first describe what animal attraction, or "AA" means.

This is a frame of mind, a manner of behavior that is unapologetic and wild. The KEY to AA, and why it works, is that you are Innocent.

The Frame: You are a lover. You live in a repressed world, full of imposed laws, rules and manners. You see through a woman's defenses, you see her soul and the goddess that yearns to be unleashed. Your emotions cannot be controlled by society's cages, and it's not your fault that you are so attracted and driven towards women. You aren't a player, or a liar, or a cheater, but a free spirit breaking out of it's cage. You cannot control your desires for women. You are innocent, exciting, and uninhibited. No matter what happens in life, you are a wolf. You are independent, but comfortable in a pack. You love to have fun and be easy going, but you have a dark side that must be acknowledged...


Now, let that soak in. Consider it, and allow yourself time to cross reference this frame with your current lifestyle. Think of your relationships, your nights out and your recent experiences with various women.

You may realize a few things:

- you have felt apologetic with a woman for expressing your desires

- you have held back, or hesitated despite your strongest urge to proceed

- you have experienced LMR and failed

- you have been given shit tests and failed

- you have thought way too hard about your game

- you have felt dependent on a woman's approval

- you have put the pussy on a pedestal

- you have missed golden opportunities because of this

- you are an animal, but you're in a cage.


Hell, this is why we're all here, to understand and take control of these complexes that plague our social lives.

A very crucial piece of the pie is AA.

FR EX #1: I was at a club not long ago with a bunch of buddies. Among them was a good friend of mine, and his sister. Now, her and I had fooled around before, but this is all recent, and the lessons to be learned are contained within this one night at the club. So the night went on, and I hadn't payed that much attention to her really, I was DHV with my friends, being independent of her attention. Eventually, I decided I wanted to make out with her a bit. Now, shes a virgin, so if you're wondering why I'm not going for an F-close just yet, now you know. So I found her on the dance floor, dancing with another buddy of mine. I needed to react quickly, and this buddy is no AFC. So I quickly diverted my attention from her and started dancing with another nearby friend. I eventually bumped into her and quickly moved in to block off my buddy.

KEY: Don't hang around and wait for her to show you attention. Have your own fun, let her run into you, take her away without explanation.

Now that I was with her, my frame must be considered. I was having a great time, I had a huge smile, and I was very much C/F. I also made my intentions clear, and she decided to pull me into a corner to avoid the gaze of her wary brother. I didn't back down, nor was I forceful. I was innocently persistent, and let her take me away.

Then she gave me many a shit test. "You're a player."

"My brother says to watch out for you."

"I don't even really know you."

"You're too mysterious."

To me, these were all compliments. To her, they were defense mechanisms. Had I reacted weirdly to even one of them, she could have easily walked away. But I didn't, I plead innocent. I wasn't fazed, or upset, or awkward, or anything. And she wasn't really joking around, she was quite serious. I smiled and disarmed her. While I can't recall the exact words, I told her that she shouldn't worry about these things, but sincerely, not at all trying to brush her off. Besides the verbal, the body language I used was crucial. Not timid, but not forceful. I just didn't acknowledge her "cage". We ended up making out for a long time.



I'll admit, I'm no master, yet. I just got out of a two year relationship where I learned a lot about what I WANT in life. Now here's how my relationship went,

Guys, Please learn from this:

I was the dominant force in the relationship. She was very needy and jealous. I let her warp my mind into not flirting with girls (to avoid these fights) and in turn lost a lot of mojo. Now, when I say I was dominant, I was. I decided almost everything, and I was the one who used to go out with the boys and leave her at home. I'd go to clubs then come home and fuck her after. It was good, and this is how it ended: I dumped her. She never got over me, we kept fucking for a summer, then she freaked out and disconnected from my life. She's still not over me, and I walked away without a scratch.

Lessons:

1) Be independent, you will control the relationship.

2) Don't stop flirting with girls ever, don't apologize, it's natural.

3) Realize that life is short. Don't end up in some old married couple relationship like I've seen so many men succumb to.

that's it for now, part 2 to follow...

Let's here some FR's or experience/advice from you guys about AA

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