Something that I noticed is that to be natural, you have to have whatever that is natural, from the heart. From within yourself. Not from something you've read.

People who are naturals have gained their natural abilities through life experiences and how they handled each of them. They never took things as failures, instead those experiences were lessons to be learned. And with knowledge, comes power. And with Power comes great responsibility ( as mentioned in SpiderMan ) That saying is true!

Why is it true, you ask? Because The power to learn from the past and embrace the past mistakes, leads you to become a better man. A more mature man. You have responsibilities over your life and the experiences you live. Just as long as you learned your lessons, otherwise, it comes back to haunt you.

Lessons that haven't been learned through our past experiences is what causes us to be fucked up idiots to begin with. I learned that lesson already, so I'm opening that up to you guys as well.

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Decisions are based on choices; to do or not to do - there is no try.

i feel you bro. i notice this in myself when i became a personal trainer and started out lost and kept to myself. then realize to make money i would have to change now i talk openly to anyone in or out of the gym just about all the time unless im in a rush. it work the same for me and helped me in every aspect of my life including women.

p.s. smiling is key.