If you have female coworkers who seem to think you're good looking but are in relationships how do you cut off attention? That is, how do you subtlely stop texting and chit chat convos with ppl you bump into often? I'm tired of giving three girls at my job my time and attention outside of work and not getting anything out of it. They're getting what they want - attention from a HV man and I'm seemingly getting non of the sexual attention I want. So I want to cut them off now. I've already blocked them from my social media profiles but is there a decent and smooth way to transition back to simple "hi" friends where you just smile and wave hello when passing them in a hall? Also what do you respond with when they eventually ask what the deal is (i.e. realize they aren't getting the attention they used to get)? Thanks!

Don't give them the attention. Done. When you see them, greet them and go about your business. It won't be the end to their world.

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Grab your crotch area and shout "You want some of this? Wait your turn!"

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Well duh I understand not to give them any attention - I was asking how. But these are coworkers that are used to a certain level of attention and I don't know the best way to stop the attention and what I should say in the event any of them ask. You can't go from having long chats and them touching your abs and/or arms (I work out a lot) to ignoring them. So I'm not sure of the best way to transition from allowing them the privilege of my attention as a HV male and being allowed into my personal space to "hi" and goodbye. Like what do you say to someone you used to allow to feel your arms that you no longer want that type of interaction. And before anyone writes "tell them you no longer want them to feel your arms" please don't state the unhelpful and obvious.

Why don't you just fuck off and take your attitude with you? I detect some transparent (not so) subtle bragging agenda behind the point of this thread, It really is THAT simple to ignore someone. If you can't ignore someone and get people to stop touching your washboard abs, then you probably should give up on life entirely.

P.S. Welcome to the forum.

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Fuckin' bellend. Why are you here? There are plenty of guys who want actual help, and here I am wasting time on you? I think not. For fucks sake. Go away.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S805Y4LJiKQ

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uf0l6D2Memk

Here is some infield of the OP

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LMAO. Start telling them about your status as a HV male. They'll be gone before you know it.

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Here's the thing - this probably wasn't a good question for this community. PU community is more of a "if they aren't suiting your needs then NEXT". It's very easy to completely cut off ppl you can easily never see again. But when it comes to ppl you have to see everyday then there is a certain way it has to be done. You just can't go from text convos and face to face convos with mild kino on their part to just ignoring them out of the blue. There's a calibrated way to gradually distance yourself and I thought this place would have the answer. It's possible to be HV and not know the best way to handle every situation. It's not your faults if you don't know the answer, just say "good question- wish I could help you". Stating the obvious ("just ignore them") is as useless as a cockless sailor in a whore house.

This isn't a good question. Women are treating you like you're a joke and you don't want to recognize it. Most women that touch you and admire your body on a regular basis either want you in a sexual way OR they are making fun of you in your face and you are too dumb and into yourself to recognize it for what it really is. Either way you allowed it to happen and you don't want to deal with the repercussions required to get yourself out of the situation.

High value men stand for what they believe in. High value men don't give their value away for free. You're not high value. If you were, you'd be able to say to their faces that you don't want to be touched anymore. Instead you would rather be treated like a cockless sailor in a whorehouse.

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I'd hate to get on the wrong side of Jackzero lol. Even when you're right (you're not, at all - don't get me wrong) you still end up wrong

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It isn't a good question though is it?

In fact, this was one of the worst threads I've come across and that is a challenge for this forum. Well done.

Look, if you were to walk through a gay district and guys kept approaching you and touching your abs, you would would react negatively and tell them to go away wouldn't you?

Same applies to normal people, make it known that you don't like to be touched and they will back off indefinitely.

But like I said, you're transparently bragging. This is a forum to pick up girls, not to tell them to stop touching you, what's wrong with you?

Thats like joining a cancer support forum and telling the community that you're not dying but being alive is an inconvenience for you...

My question is to you, what is missing from your love life and how can we help with that?

P.s. Jack should be involved in politics. He would win.

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I hate being that guy for the most part, but these guys who show up and start talk shit bring it out of me (Charmer).

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IF this is a serious question, the answer is to simply NOT engage them, or briefly engage them and tell them that you've got work to finish up, walk to your office/desk, and start doing some work. If they approach you tell them that you have an "urgent report" or something to finish up. Simple